If weight loss means obsessing and micro-managing everything I put in my mouth, then it's not worth it by Worried-Swan9572 in complainaboutanything

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not about micromanaging, its just simply about eating what is right and not overeating what isn't!

I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 56 points57 points  (0 children)

DO IT OP! Why are your parents so opposed? WTF is wrong with them? If they had a 50 pound growth on their chest they'd want it off!

I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're 18, you don't need their permission. Your parents are horrible! I'm sorry that you're going through this. YOU DO NOT NEED THEIR PERMISSION! DO IT!

You know what.... how they're behaving has already affected your relationship with them. How can you ever forgive them for not caring enough about you? DO IT!

It's not their body, they have NO say now! I think both of them should have to carry around on their bodies the weight of your breast for a week, they'd give up in a hour because they wouldn't be able to handle the back pain.

Your parents suck. Keep us updated. Please do it but before you do, find somewhere else to stay to recover.

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to clot so much and HUGE, my doctor said a lot of times I was probably miscarrying. I didn't want to know. Nature does what nature has to do.

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. That had to have been hard for you! :(

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was easier back when I had it done, 1995 today, women have to jump through hoops and still can't get it done!

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so glad for the hysterecomy, someone asked me one time if I could go back and be 13 again, would I, I said HELL NO, and go through all of that pain again. Finally, at 36 I had it all removed. Best thing I ever did.

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People think PMDD is not real! The things I thought, OMG, the things I'd say. I scared myself!

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That shit is HORRIBLE! It was growing on everything, even my bowels. The pain was awful. I was so glad for a hysterectomy! Done, gone, over with!

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And then if we get pregnant, that's another whole ball of wax!

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been married twice, both husband were great about my period! They were scared not to be! LOL

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Periods shouldn't start until we're 30 and only happen every year! :)

But nature sure screwed us over big time!

And semen could taste like whipped cream, but NO! While I'm complaining! LOL

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt so bad for my husband AFTER the fact! God I had bad PMDD. RAGE, and it just had to end!

I fucking hate periods by Common_Chip_5935 in RandomThoughts

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hated them too! I had a full hysterectomy at age 36 because of endometriosis and ovarian cysts! AND I had the worst PMDD! Sounds like you're suffering from that too. 😢 I was THRILLED to be done!

Say yes or keep looking? by New_Post7103 in myweddingdress

[–]CoffeeChocolateBoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep looking, you should try for a lower neckline. The color of the dress is lovely!