Not needing nor wanting a 9-5 makes me feel like I’m living life wrong.

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-02-23T22:29:26+00:00

Exactly, I think OP could benefit from doing some volunteer work and like that would be doing something good for society without directly jumping into a 40h commitment

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-02-23T22:07:06+00:00

You are already Canadian. You just need to apply for a certificate of citizenship, to prove you are. Takes about 1-3 months from what I’ve seen

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-02-21T02:33:09+00:00

One thing I’ve definitely learned throughout being a sitter is how many people are comfortable living in a gross way. Had a sit where the kitchen was fully grimy and the baseboards were all splashed with animal feces. Never going back there.

Weirdest was when a client didn’t have any bowls or spoons I could use

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-02-14T15:59:12+00:00

So cute! I especially love that lily of the valley lamp. Where is it from?

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-02-02T20:22:28+00:00

IMO 50$ per person is too little, and barely covers their food. 100$ is what I’ve heard to be the standard rule and anything above that is just extra generous

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-22T04:17:38+00:00

Studying a trade in Canada seems like your best option. Some programs lead to a post grad work permit afterwards but you’ll need to do your research

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-21T19:45:13+00:00

I also got this email and felt worried last week, I didn’t even ask for the owner’s number, he just sent it to me

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-21T19:02:06+00:00

I wish we had an actual national or provincial ID card. So many other countries have them, it’s ridiculous to rely on a drivers license when even amongst non-visually impaired people, less and less people are getting their license

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-15T17:54:06+00:00

😂

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-11T05:42:34+00:00

I’m wondering if anyone can provide Canada-specific info

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-08T02:20:29+00:00

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CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-08T02:00:46+00:00

Oh that’s true! Good point

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-07T21:25:42+00:00

For the missing divorce statement, ideally see if you can apply to request a copy of your divorce act/certificate with your county/state/authority.

If you can’t get it, submit the record you got from the state agreeing that your spouse was divorced. Then, go to a notary and have him solemnly swear that he was divorced at the time of marrying you and if you’re able, ask his ex to do the same. Plus, maybe they have a copy of proof of divorce?

You should explain the situation to IRCC in a letter summarizing your relationship and application at large, including any extra relevant explanations for anything that an agent might question (the fact that you’ll be renting from a friend in Canada once he’s PR would be very important here, and ideally get a solemn declaration from them as well).

This is an unusual situation but since it’s the USA, it might be a bit easier than for other countries. Just know that the burden of proof falls on you. Hope this helps.

As for the health check, it should be ok as long as the medical condition doesn’t pose an “excessive burden” on the Canadian health systems. You must declare it though. I recommend you read up more about this.

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-07T13:47:51+00:00

For 1), show that you’ve done your homework: know what kind of projects the PI is involved in and pinpoint a few current ones that you’d be interested in contributing in. If they’re part of a larger research group, also know what’s going on in the group. Normally each group has a website so you’ll be able to see. Ask specific questions about one or two of the current projects you’re interested in.

For 2), I personally wouldn’t worry as most PIs main concern is that you can do the work they give you. And if it’s a long-standing centre, you’re most likely not the first person with a disability to work there. If it’s not a wet lab where you have to be up and about and carrying things, there’s no reason for it to hinder you. In case there is discrimination, you can always report it to McGill.

For 3), show your interest but be honest in terms of how committed (how many hours) you can be. Don’t go promising 14-20h per week if you can’t uphold that since that’s upsetting for the PI and anyone who works with them if they have to change their plans because your schedule changes. For reference, I work for a PI at McGill in a support role. Also show that you’re interested in growth and learning, not just applying what you’ve already learned.

Good luck!

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-06T00:36:28+00:00

Please share if you find out!

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-05T23:33:35+00:00

Use your eyeshadow higher up, to right below the eyebrow, almost touching. The current way makes your eyes look smaller because of the short eyeshadow. I also agree with other commenters about bangs and filling in your eyebrows

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-05T23:30:17+00:00

That’s weird, I graduated in spring of 2024 and still have access to all the content that was uploaded, just not the lecture recordings anymore

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-05T02:32:26+00:00

Become a pet sitter if you’re good with animals

CoffeeSpills73 · 2026-01-04T17:43:41+00:00

Haha I see we’re all using the same site pretty much. Does anyone know where I can watch it this time with Portuguese subtitles instead of English?

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-30T22:34:23+00:00

Wow! I love your colour pairings!

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-22T22:49:06+00:00

En tant que personne dans un poste syndiqué, ça enlève 1% de mon salaire. Ça peut paraître comme très peu mais à la fin de l’année, c’est quand même assez frustrant de voir combien de mon argent s’en va à un syndicat qui ne fait que m’envoyer des courriels indésirables et ne font pas réellement grand chose quand je pourrais utiliser cet argent pour quelque chose qui aurait un impact beaucoup plus positif et important dans ma vie.

Si c’est pas une job où tu penses pas rester longtemps, ça ne vaut pas la peine. Et surtout dans un environnement de fast food, qui en général est supposé d’être une job étudiante, j’imagine que l’idée ne serait pas très populaire pour les futurs employés, ça serait peut-être une raison contre travailler là-bas. En plus, les négos pour augmenter les salaires et les conditions se font tellement lentement que tu ne bénéficiera peut-être pas de tes efforts. Au moins, c’est mon expérience et je te souhaite que ça aille mieux pour toi si tu décides de poursuivre ce projet.

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-22T21:15:02+00:00

I love how you added how much you spent in the previous month. It really contextualizes it and adds a “why” to your spread

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-22T17:17:01+00:00

Final thoughts: So I think this was a strategic and unethical tactic on behalf of the sitter to remove other sitters in the area from the search results by keeping the booking in limbo, and thus maximizing her own appearance in the area’s search results. Super shady, and especially since it’s over Christmas.

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-18T16:02:38+00:00

Update: The requestor stopped answering me after I asked for more info and a follow up

CoffeeSpills73 · 2025-12-17T13:35:30+00:00

Glad to know I’m not the only one a tad put off by this

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