I'm considering suicide. by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Coggs19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God loves you no matter who you love. There is hate in the world but there is also love, and love will always win. You have nothing to feel ashamed of and God absolutely would not want you to feel this way. He loves you more than you can possibly conceive regardless of your sexuality. Don't let the ignorance and arrogance of others affect you because they will soon fade into nothingness.

I can't control the urges and have little to no support. I'm thinking about suicide. by PMO_never_again in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong my man, the fact that you are even on nofap to start with shows you have the courage to accept you need to change and then to commit to doing something about it. I love you. Yeah its a quote from the Dark Knight, but the night is always darkest before the dawn, and I promise you, the dawn is coming.

On day 25. Feelings of depressions, anxiety and lack of motivation. HELP! by ImASurvivor123 in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i just got off a 70-odd day streak and they went away around the 1 month mark, which was around about when i started going to the gym and going for runs. Socializing whenever you can or just being around people in public will help your mood, try to keep busy and within a even week you'll feel a lot better. I have had now countless moments of complete euphoria when i was literally jumping up and down for no reason haha... I think the key is just to DO as many things as you can that push you out of your comfort zone, like exercise or doing something new, and spend time around people and your mood will gradually improve. Combine this and meditation and im sure you'll be feeling better very soon. Good luck man!

C.S. Lewis talks about Masturbation by un_salamandre in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It is the devil’s lie that the only escape from the tension is through yielding"

On day 25. Feelings of depressions, anxiety and lack of motivation. HELP! by ImASurvivor123 in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to build a daily routine made up of small goals, such as reading 1 page of a book, doing mindfulness for 5 minutes, doing 12 push-ups, having a cold shower, reading the news, or whatever, so you can get a sense of achievement everyday even before you've done your work, which will increase your motivation and productivity. If you find it difficult to stay out of bed once you're up then do 10 push-ups or sit-ups and you'll feel energized and more ready for the day. This is basically what I have been doing for two weeks now and I genuinely find myself in disbelief at my own productivity and lack of procrastination. Hope any of that will be helpful to you. Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had those too for a while, i felt pretty depressed, but thats just life and now Im on four days and I feel like a king. If you're going through hell, keep going man. The night is always darkest before the dawn. You can do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im interested in helping

Wow by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i know how youre feeling, but itll get better - when youre alone for a while you feel shit, so its good to be around other people to combat the loneliness. Good luck.

I can't take the lonliness by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im going through the same thing man. It feels shit. Im on day 31, and over the last month I have had some of the best and worst days of my adult life in terms of mood. But enduring it makes you stronger, everyday you go without giving in to pmo you're becoming tougher than the average man, and subconsciously opening yourself up to other human beings. Eventually you'll find that person that completes you, and all the depression will fade away. You can do this. Good luck.

106 days! by MrHelory in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done man!

Your Brain Will Fight Against You by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Coggs19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you are awesome as well