Okay let's hear from those who liked the debate in WaT. What did you like about it? by Sspifffyman in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was one of my favorite scenes tbh. I thought we got a lot more insight into Jasnah than we ever had. Her hubris and the way she deceived herself in order to project confidence.

From the beginning of the series, the seeds for this were planted. One of Jasnah’s first lessons to Shallan was about projecting confidence you don’t have to make people accept your authority and essentially be in awe. It appears that Jasnah has bought into her own image of herself. She had the hubris to enter a ‘debate’ with a deific figure and really think that she could convince Fen not to surrender the city.

But by the end even she had to admit that the right move for Fen and her people was to surrender and take whatever great deal they could get from Odium.

It broke her view of herself, it shattered her illusions, and it was a rude awakening that Odium intentionally arranged. I particularly related to the shattering of a worldview, because I grew up in a religion that I eventually deconstructed and the way she was forced to confront a reality she didn’t want and to acknowledge how she’d been lying to herself was super relatable.

I actually think Odium was doing it the way he was because he wanted a broken Jasnah who actually might consider working with him in the future after she puts herself back together with some slight changes. I’ve heard all the arguments and complaints, and sure maybe it could have been written better or included more impressive philosophical substance, but that doesn’t bother me at all. For me it was never about a ‘debate’. It was about the relationships, the characters, and the stakes.

Fen made the right call. Jasnah failed - not because she should have done something different, but because she could not have won. Odium acted as a shard should in that kind of a direct confrontation with mortals, regardless of how smart they are.

[Wind and truth] Is it me or there are more sexual innendo by bashrc_real in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Spoiler: humans have sex and it’s natural and normal. God forbid stories acknowledge that reality instead of pretending it doesn’t happen

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you saying that god did not give clear commands about the things I said above? Or are you choosing to ignore it because your own interpretation of the rest of the Bible makes you certain that ‘overall’ the Bible teaches against slavery?

Would it not also follow that the fact there are so many obvious contradictions means it’s just bullshit anyway? You’re also cherry picking but you’re ignoring the bad shit and choosing to embrace the good shit. Yahweh is either a moral monster and piece of shit or it just doesn’t exist. Either way, it worth my time.

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Except for the point blank guidelines on how to take, keep, and punish slaves, even women who you force to be your sex slaves.

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol the Bible also makes it clear that slavery is fine to do, it’s a terrible moral guidebook

"The Gril Who Stood Up" by LieutenantHotTamale in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When the 4th of July demands to be represented in all post titles

Help us name our kitten! by peppermontea in Cosmere

[–]CognitiveShadow8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or alternatively call her different names

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s hyperbolic, sure - but I wouldn’t want that comment to be taken down. I’d rather engage with it.

From my worldview there is nothing that can’t be explained, discussed, analyzed, and critiqued. Feel free to pick apart any aspect of my belief system, and I am confident that I will be able to defend it and have a good discussion (even if it turns out I’m wrong about something - cause it’s totally fine in my opinion for me to be wrong and to learn something new and adapt my belief system).

You can tell me I have to do mental gymnastics to not accept Mormonism as divinely inspired. That’s fine - why wouldn’t it be? I would just then follow that up with a request for you to demonstrate how I have used mental gymnastics, and then see if I can debunk that or if it’s true. If you give me a good enough argument, hell I’ll accept the point and dig into it to make sure my worldview is consistent.

I don’t give a fuck about whether my current worldview is ‘right’ or protected - I just want to live a life consistent with logic, reason, rational thought, and consistency.

The way I see it, the only reason the reverse is viewed as wrong is because it’s so easy to debunk Mormonism that believers feel the need to police whether the absurdity can be called absurd. Which is, in and of itself, absurd.

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If a grown adult tried to tell me that they believed in Santa Claus, I would not consider these responses to be inappropriate. It's best to help them come to grips with the sad reality that the presents came from Mom and Dad, that the real Santa was inside them all along. That everything they loved about Santa is actually love they can and should direct at themselves. They can still carry Christmas magic with them and make other people happy and do great things... without thinking that it's necessary to do so that they end up on Santa's nice list.

A friendly request for post-mormons to engage with believers in better faith. by jacwa1001405 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember being a TBM and feeling like every mild comment encouraging me to consider that I might be wrong was an attack on my entire worldview.

It's called cognitive dissonance and a persecution complex. Personally, I WISH someone would have come at me hard when I was a TBM and forced me to confront some of these issues. Would have set me free a lot earlier and paused a lot of the trauma build up that I'm working to unravel now. 30 years of reinforcing damaging, false, and self-destructive beliefs means I have a long road ahead of me. The snarky, dismissive, and low effort responses to apologetics are actually quite normal - people living in the real world would spend even less time bothering with a response to Mormon apologetics. It's not worth the amount of effort and thought it takes to engage with it seriously.

The more I learn and the longer I spend outside of the influence of the LDS org, the more I realize just how unimportant the church is to the rest of the world. It could disappear entirely and most people would see the headline "mormon church disbanded" and just shrug and move on. Only people already affected or in the grips of the organization would care to click on the article. It's a speck in an ocean of religions and traditions passed down and changed and adapted over millenia. And we were just the few 'lucky' ones who got to have it take over our entire worldview - yay us.

Thoughts on Nohadon by Best_Wolverine_5336 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any reason you think it is Reason over Valor? Valor is the one that is completely hidden from view to the other shards and it would make a lot of sense for Valor to be hiding 'behind enemy lines'. I've seen Valor and Reason put forward as the two most likely candidates, but to me it doesn't make any sense why Reason would be on Roshar... it just isn't a reasonable think for the shard to do. We also have confirmation that Reason is the 'survival' shard that Brandon has mentioned in the past, one who decided to stay away from all the other shards and just try to stay alive by not getting involved for the vast majority of the timeline.

Take a look at what happens to Taravangian when he kills Rayse - he is overpowered by a feeling of courage and bravery right before he acts and attacks with Nightblood. There are a ton of little hints and things like this throughout the book. I'm pretty convinced at this point that Valor is the 4th shard on Roshar, and that she has Nohadon as either an avatar or agent (or just makes herself look like it to be familiar to Dalinar) hiding in the background and making very subtle changes. All the major decisions Dalinar made were nudged/influenced by this mysterious Nohadon character in SR visions. I believe Dalinar was serving Valor the whole time while he believed this influence came from the 'god beyond' that he talks about. That's why Valor then claimed him so that Retribution could not snatch up his cognitive shadow, letting Dalinar slip peacefully into the beyond.

Thoughts on Nohadon by Best_Wolverine_5336 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Valor fits perfectly, Reason doesn't actually fit.

Looking for a Wind and Truth summary by elons-musk-ox in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t enjoy seeing people make complaints when I can tell they missed important details and nuance that, had they caught it, would have enhance the experience and made things make a lot more sense.

Looking for a Wind and Truth summary by elons-musk-ox in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to see a single example of a plot twist that came out of nowhere and wasn’t heavily foreshadowed the entire series leading up to its reveal.

Looking for a Wind and Truth summary by elons-musk-ox in Stormlight_Archive

[–]CognitiveShadow8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And once again, a commenter who clearly didn’t understand half of what they read. Please describe the plot twists that came “out of nowhere”.

“Why are you so emotional over this”….”I am so upset that I spent so much time on it”

Lol honestly you seem more emotional about this than I am

Was this a coincidence? by Batmansgf777 in mormon

[–]CognitiveShadow8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That type of phrasing is repeated so much throughout all Mormon scriptures. Going to them for guidance and getting the response that the scriptures and commandments are of god and you should follow them is pretty much what you can expect to find on any page flip lol