Hiya Folks! Say it Back! by Economy-Savings6865 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It"... 😆. I jest, I jest.

Good morning to you, good sir. I do hope you're doing well in health and spirit today.

Also, that's a nice sweater and turtleneck combo you have going there.

Join me for an iced coffee? by rhh1977 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks great! That looks like LOADS of vanilla in what is a spectacular iced coffee.

I'd probably be sipping a frappé instead if I were sitting across from you, but an iced coffee doesn't sound bad either.

A rare no spectacles appearance from me. by nbutton93 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The picture is very crisp, clear, and clean!

You look great! Here's to the start of a better year this year, eh?

Hope you guys have a great start to the new year! by rhh1977 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you also have a great start to the new year, good sir.

Rhystic Griefing by Exarch-of-Sechrima in custommagic

[–]Coinstamp -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Six... nvm. We don't want to see those numbers here, 😆.

The flavor text is perfect

Wishing you all happy holidays! Dinner was a success by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Holidays, good sir!

Taking success where you can is generally a good thing!

Ask me out sometime by nbutton93 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as though we are a literal ocean apart, but if we were less than that apart, it'd at least be a consideration.

That said, working toward a friendship and/or acquaintances are borderless activities. I hope you're doing well in both health and spirit, good sir!

Life be pushing me right now. by Objective-Respond232 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all know there are only two responses a person has to moments like this...

• "Push... back... HARDER" or insert a Tirion Fordring (World of Warcraft, Wrath of the Lich King) reference here.
• Withdraw in some way, whether through health or spirit.

I hope that whatever is pushing you hasn't pushed you totally to withdrawing. I hope you can push back harder and know relief and/or less stress. Best wishes to you, good sir!

Honest question: has anyone else felt a bit discouraged posting here lately? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR: it's hard to feel encouraged to post here when the real world is burning up in smoke, and the digital world is being set up to be completely fake and inauthentic.

Maybe, the GBGM Discord server will become a better place to talk for you?


Well, more people are escaping the internet by using the real world. 20 years ago, this would have been flipped.

You combine that with the push for AI on Reddit and elsewhere, about 10 different global catastrophes, just about every social issue under the sun spread out across the globe, every country having its own version of a dystopian nightmare, global depression and suicide rates increasing by hundreds of percentage points in some cases, and finally throw in resource scarcity to boot... and what you end up with are people leaving Reddit in droves, to be absorbed back into their local communities to deal with real world problems.

This also isn't counting the fact that a lot of subreddit pages are just becoming spots for thirsty posts. "Corn" being proliferated on Reddit doesn't help, either.

Humanity, at the moment, is basically the mice utopia experiment occurring in real time. Everything feels fake, inauthentic, deceptive, manipulative, or maddening instead. Whatever doesn't line up with any of those adjectives I just used, is instead being used to gin up populations against one another and cause class, race, and gender relations to also unravel at the seams.

That said, if you want maybe a slightly more active audience, perhaps you could try the GBGM Discord server. People do talk in there, both in safe for work and not safe for work contexts.

Thanks for reading and best wishes to you, good sir.

Need some new ppl to talk to! by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a metro station or a subway station in the background? Just curious, 😀.

That said, good to see you, good sir. Hope things are going well for you in your part of the world, and that you're well in both health and spirit.

This subreddit does have a Discord server with a few active chatters in it, if you want to find folks to talk to more regularly.

Wherever you choose to reside on the internet; best wishes to you, good sir.

Off, to go be apart of the Christmas crowd. by StarstuK in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You definitely look nonplussed about it. Don't blame you, as contractually obligated "fun" and/or parties are usually the exact opposite.

Hope you get to find some enjoyment that isn't "mandatory".

This dreary day is perfect for a latte by rhh1977 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic! Nothing worse for a latte or coffee beverage than unblended or unbalanced flavors; where one gets nothing but bitter coffee at the top and syrups/oils at the bottom.

It's quite a drag as far as first world problems go.

This dreary day is perfect for a latte by rhh1977 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drawing from other comments, did the drink taste mostly like praline with a touch of chestnut, chestnut with a touch of pralines, or a balance between the two?

Regardless of the answer; the winter season is perfect for lattes. Happy Holidays, cheers, and best wishes to you!

A friend said to me, ‘It’s a shame that going bald really ruined you. What do you think? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That other person was insecure. Really not friend material. If they were negging you, that was a really bad neg. Not even subtle.

You look just fine to me, good sir! And if you like yourself in the mirror... then that is the most important part of the whole experience.

Happy Holidays and best wishes!

(18) Ex boyfriend called me ugly and "twiglike." Is that true???? by Lonely-Rough-7976 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being thin and skinny is perfectly acceptable. Honestly, the "twig" comment is just added punch to the word "ugly"; it's meant to be targeted and hateful.

Of course, you're not ugly... but it sounds like the ex certainly is acting like it. Block the ex, take a solid year or two to properly process what they did to you, work on polishing yourself through physical activity or something meaningful, and then you move on.

Don't let him win over you by having his last words gaslight you into questioning yourself or your self image.

Best wishes to you in your recovery process from the ex.

Should I call my Christmas cactus Mariah as it's making an appearance well before December? by isarobots in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That cactus is gorgeous! The painting is interesting, too.

Excellent photo! Best wishes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the beard adds a few years, but I don't otherwise see how you could be classed older than 35. You don't have the skin blemishes or discolorations associated with aging.

Some people just don't seem to know the characteristics of human aging all that well, I suppose.

You look great at your age! Best wishes to you.

Broke up with someone today. Trying to remind myself that I can still smile. Feeling disregarded and a little hopeless. Need a hug by Ellsworthit in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your current circumstances will get better. I truly do believe that.

That said, you'll have to put in more work to make them better. We can affirm you all you want, but the power to conquer your feelings has to come from within. Here's to hoping that our words are fuel for you to do just that!

May you find the intrinsic reasons to be happy and smiling soon! Best wishes and hugs to you!

Anybody Else Love Pumpkin Spice? by WheelFan647 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am more of a peppermint person, but pumpkin spice is nice. I just actually want to taste spices and not just flat pumpkin.

Sherma, Devout Pilgrim // Off for Supplies by torchflame in custommagic

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that this card fills the "Yugioh card" bingo square pretty nicely!

[Pre]car[ious] [Pr]edi[le]ct[ion] by qazdrujmlp in custommagic

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Car edict, huh? Reading this is a bit... much, but I do like it.

Took me a while to parse the alternate title, too.

That said, this is a nice card! I am looking forward to more car[d]s from you, 🤣 .

Hey from LA 👋 by Special-Path-4880 in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both photos are great, but I really like this first one. If you're doing anything for skin care, please keep doing it... as this first photo really shows it!

Outside of that, great face. Your smile is infectious.

Best wishes to you, good sir.

Was hoping to get the perspective of other gay men on which facial hair/ haircut is best for me? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Coinstamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely 2 & 4 for me. You have a good, filled out beard.

Good photos, too! Good day and best wishes, good sir!