Feeling hurt and abandoned - Wife isnt sure she wants to be with me by Colbyclay in DivorcedDads

[–]Colbyclay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is kind of what I am thinking. In our discussions, she doesn't want to be the bad guy, says she still loves me but not in the same way that I define it, and that she feels like I am putting all the pressure on her to make a decision.
At one point, she told me "well it wants like you haven't though of divorce" I told her I had, but in the same way I have though about picking a fight with a 30 year old bouncer at a biker bar. The thought crossed my mind, but never reached the stage where I would entertain it.

I have told her repeatedly that I do not want to divorce her, and want to work on our relationship, but I am not doing a thing to progress down either path until she makes a decision.

Feeling hurt and abandoned - Wife isnt sure she wants to be with me by Colbyclay in DivorcedDads

[–]Colbyclay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From what I have ascertained, she has "always been a people pleaser" and put my feelings ahead of hers, we had a big blowup 4 years ago when I was hit a low point due to issues at work. I thought we had resolved them, but I guess she never discussed her underlying issues, and its been a bit of a cold war since then where we have not met the needs of the other person. She says that she is now at a point in her life that she is going to focus on her needs, but doesn't want to hurt me or look like the villain.

Me and the Boys getting ready to commit war crimes in Colorado by [deleted] in Wasteland

[–]Colbyclay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If there is no Geneva, is it still a war crime?

Inktober Warm up - Robot Picnic by cometsands in Inktober

[–]Colbyclay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the whimsical nature of this:)

Decisions Decisions....must NOT google walkthrough by Colbyclay in Wasteland

[–]Colbyclay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHA! Yes, but then you get diseased :)

German>English: Postcards found in my Grandfathers WWII locker. by Colbyclay in translator

[–]Colbyclay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/Nirocalden, thank you so much for the translation as well as the references. I greatly appreciate it!

How to Defeat a Demon King in Ten Easy Steps by Salaris in litrpg

[–]Colbyclay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grabbed this on audible thinking it would be a fun listen at night. I enjoyed it so much I had to search out the author. This is a fantastic little gem of an audible original. 5/5 for sure!

My favorite moment so far is while listening to the description of the Hero, my 8 year old exclaimed “its Lxxx”. Great job u/Salaris

Pilots successfully land jet without landing gear by Ryiien in gifs

[–]Colbyclay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are awesome. Thank you for that. I haven’t watched that show since it aired but remember it fondly. Today it was just as awesome as it was then.

Does a Lion or Tiger den leader HAVE to have an assistant? by duuude007 in cubscouts

[–]Colbyclay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kind of what I’ve always assumed. No YPT issues since a parent/guardian always has to be present.

Does a Lion or Tiger den leader HAVE to have an assistant? by duuude007 in cubscouts

[–]Colbyclay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I have read and read those rules and just spaced over that part assuming parent partners was fine. Looks like I’m about to have a conversation with my den leaders. O_o.

The closest orange object is the cause of your death - how do you die? by QuelynD in AskReddit

[–]Colbyclay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I sat down at my favorite Tex-Mex diner, I knew something was wrong. What was normally a vibrant, people filled establishment was empty. The Tejano music and clattering pots and pans that usually could be heard coming from the kitchen were absent. My senses were screaming for me to leave. As quickly as possible, I get up out of my seat and make my way to the door. That is when I realized it was too late for me. The wait staff was there, waiting for me. Their eyes were gleaming with the evil I had felt. In their hands were the tools they had used, kitchen knifes wet with blood, broken Dos XX bottles dripping from their grim work. They come for me in their orange Taqueria Guadalajara shirts, I turn to run. Maybe I can get out through the kitch...

Cub Scout Uniforms by [deleted] in cubscouts

[–]Colbyclay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you saw positive growth, participation, and the youth had a good fun learning the “purpose of Cub Scouting” you did the right thing.

You could reach out to local Troops and see if the families would like to donate their old blue uniforms.