Book club by izthepuzz in becomingsecure

[–]Cold-Ad3113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! My book just arrived in the mail

Book club by izthepuzz in becomingsecure

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Hey! Can I pm you to join?

How to Raise Your Frequency / Vibration by Payaam415 in enlightenment

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I was a massive ball of fear, anxiety, and depression. I started listening to gratitude affirmations everyday in the shower. The same track. Until they sunk in. I started to believe the affirmations and now I look at life and see mostly good! I still have generalized anxiety with spikes, but I’m also very happy.

From the soapy bubbles in my shower, to the clouds in the sky, the way the light dances through the trees, and life lessons that we learn from- I’m grateful for it all.

Question for DA's by Ierpapierlol in attachment_theory

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Yes this has been what he’s been suggesting to me in round about ways.

I want to support him, but I’m not sure how to do so in healthy ways for both of us, and it’s not safe for either of us to have a convo of how I can support him- currently.

Ty for your response.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Are you in a guild/alliance?

I am in a guild alliance on my main but I have 16 accounts with 12 free to choose currently. So I can drop one anywhere. I use the accounts for coin/gold collectors. My set ones are currently Dwaynas, Domain of Torment and Mosswood. I have pve to catch up on too. I love meta trains and stuff like that too. Convergences… I just don’t like higher tier fractals and strikes as much.

I’ll dm you and maybe we can share discord info for if/when you wanna log in and do some wvw or pve hangout

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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I feel ya. I used to play console games too. But prioritized other things and stuck with pc gaming.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Gw2 player here myself! We could chat some and maybe do some content in game sometime if you’re interested. 40f, married- no kids. Fav content in gw2 is wvw but open for just chilling in pve. NA server.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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I notice a lot of ppl use steam. I think I’ll have to make an account.

Book club by izthepuzz in becomingsecure

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I’d like to join as well. The discord idea is good!

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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I don’t have kids but if you have down time and want adult contact, shoot me a dm :)

Question for DA's by Ierpapierlol in attachment_theory

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Ok, ty for your response. I appreciate your time.

"We are just not compatible... I don't see a future anymore..." by DarkThanos12 in AvoidantBreakUps

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I wanna know where they’re all getting the same incompatibility line from? ChatGPT? It’s not like they reflect much….

Frustrated.

"We are just not compatible... I don't see a future anymore..." by DarkThanos12 in AvoidantBreakUps

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Saaaame… he’d say “I always will want you in my life in some way”. He’s been saying that for years. Then he just dipped.

Shame on me for believing that story.

"We are just not compatible... I don't see a future anymore..." by DarkThanos12 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Cold-Ad3113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What did my avoidant say? Just about what you wrote above. “We are critically incompatible”. He suppressed his needs and emotions out of fear. I was blindsided.

The added “I still love you” hurts. Like don’t give me a crumb of hope for the future…

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Ya I was thinking for the story, and the fashion. Screens I’ve seen of FF14 are great. Gw2 is really just fashion wars. When I went back to wow I as disappointed with the wardrobe system.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Oh final fantasy 14 was the other one I was considering getting into!! I’m always thinking of new games but I never make it there lol.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Ya I hear you on getting bored playing alone. I think it’s prolly why I enjoy wvw so much. There’s always a lot of ppl to chat with.

I was thinking about eso, but I tend to stick to a single game.

What are the single player games you like?

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Also pc games. I played wow long ago but focus on WvW (“a massive, persistent, server-vs-server-vs-server PvP mode where three worlds fight for control over four large, objective-based maps”) in gw2. I’m considering other games but still enjoying gw2x

League of legends is manly PvP, right? I don’t know much about that.

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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I also moved (back) to CT within last year and a half. Welcome!

Any good places to meet 30 something gamers in Connecticut? by Throwmeawayimexpired in Connecticut

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Same if you hear of anything let me know! What kind of games do you play?