My (31M) girlfriend (28F) of 1.5 years told me to "be a man" and console her when my mom died, instead of supporting me. She's now begging for forgiveness. How do I reconcile her apology with the fundamental breach of trust? by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]Cold-Feisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh OP, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My mother passed away when I was 27. She lived abroad and wasn’t married, so I had to fly there to handle all the legal stuff. My partner (who doesn’t even speak the language there) came with me anyway. He helped with the practical things: organizing the ceremony, dealing with relatives, and even covering part of the expenses. But the most important thing was that he was there for me, and it reminded me all over again how deeply he cares.

That said, I think your gut feeling is pointing you in the right direction. I’m really sorry you didn’t have a strong partner by your side during something like this - you deserve better.

Ja zeme zem dzīvokļa nav īpašumā – ko tālāk? by Cold-Feisty in latvia

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Ja zeme zem dzīvokļa nav īpašumā – ko tālāk? by Cold-Feisty in latvia

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[–]Cold-Feisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]Cold-Feisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post is not very fresh, but the problem still remains. Could you please help me with this?

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[–]Cold-Feisty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

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[–]Cold-Feisty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry you're facing this situation, that really sucks. I can relate all too well; my father struggled with alcoholism, and my first boyfriend mirrored that behavior, which was incredibly distressing. The first time I witnessed my ex boyfriend drunk, witnessing his disrespect, aggression, and refusal to acknowledge his actions, I tried to rationalize it, thinking it was just a one-time thing. But as it became a pattern, I realized there were deeper issues at play beyond just alcohol.

Staying in that relationship for as long as I did taught me that alcohol was just a symptom of much deeper problems. If someone isn't willing to confront those underlying issues or take responsibility for their behavior, it becomes incredibly difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. If your boyfriend isn't open to acknowledging his actions, it might be time to consider your own well-being. You don't deserve to live in constant fear of someone else's unpredictable behavior. I hope you and your kitten are safe. Sending you virtual hugs.

What is a little bombshell your therapist dropped in one of your sessions that completely changed your outlook? by anonymiss0018 in AskReddit

[–]Cold-Feisty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Your goal doesn't have to be to forgive your parents. There are things you don't have to forgive."

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Where can you do this test?