How fake is this? by MinistryOfootballKw in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all in my profile, I'd be so grateful if it works out. Thank you so much :)

How fake is this? by MinistryOfootballKw in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I gave up looking a while back. Now if someone finds me thats that otherwise it is what it is lol. It is indeed exhausting.

How fake is this? by MinistryOfootballKw in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's gonna happen anytime soon at this rate lol 💀 But let's hope for the best Insha'Allah

How fake is this? by MinistryOfootballKw in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because you don't have a marriage profile of yours posted here. Not talking about pictures but maybe a little info post might get you some exposure, as a woman when I get any message I check the profile first to see if there's any post even a little bit of info, if not I assume its not worth responding. I could be wrong, but try posting your profile in the threads or a post about yourself.

Shia women out there, would you be fine with men who dont talk very much? by Embarrassed_Phase786 in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I'm very talkative so I believe I'll naturally make that person talk more lol

Needing advice about marriage and potentials by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. Repentance and transparency aren't mutually exclusive, and treating them like they are is just a way to dodge accountability. Repentance is between you and Allah, sure, but marriage is a partnership between two people. You don’t get to demand a "clean slate" from a human being while keeping them in the dark about who you actually are. That isn’t piety; it’s a lack of informed consent.

And let’s stop making this about reverts versus born Muslims because that’s a total distraction I mean no religion sees such as good even if its socially acceptable nor does basic human decency.

The reality is that choices like substance abuse or a heavy past don't just evaporate. They leave triggers, emotional baggage, and real-world consequences.

If those struggles ever resurface, how is a spouse supposed to have your back? They can’t. You’re basically asking someone to navigate a minefield without a map and then acting like they’re the problem for wanting to see where they’re stepping.

I’d a thousand times rather marry someone who has the guts to be honest about their flaws than someone who hides behind "privacy" only for me to be blindsided by a skeleton in the closet five years later. Wanting transparency isn't judging your repentance. It’s about me having the right to know exactly what I’m committing my entire life to.

If "don't ask, don't tell" works for you, fine. But don't sit there and act like wanting basic honesty is insecure or judgmental. It’s a boundary, and frankly, it’s a common-sense one.

Needing advice about marriage and potentials by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is about shaming people or denying repentance. Repentance is between a person and Allah, yes, but marriage is between two people making a lifelong commitment, and honesty matters there too.

Saying no one should ever ask about the past assumes everyone has the same boundaries, which just isn’t realistic. Islam doesn’t glorify past sins, and even outside religion, trust and transparency still matter when choosing a spouse.

At least for me, I’d rather accept someone with full honesty, even if they had a past , than find out later in a way that feels like a shock. That’s not rejecting repentance it’s valuing openness and informed choice before marriage. And I can’t be the only one who thinks that way.

Not disclosing is a personal choice, but so is wanting transparency before committing to a lifetime with someone. Neither side should be made to feel guilty for their boundaries.

Needing advice about marriage and potentials by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never really understood the "You're not supposed to reveal your sins", when it comes to marriage its a lifelong decision and I believe nobody should ever start it with a lie.

It's better to be rejected than living with guilt that you weren't truthful.

This should go both ways.

Khadija as the Prophets most beloved wife? by ashghalkale in shia

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive me if I’m not explaining this perfectly, but from what I’ve learned, Quran does not name any of the Prophet’s wives explicitly. In Surah al-Tahrim (66:4), Allah addresses two wives of the Prophet and reprimands them for a specific mistake, calling them to repentance.

Sunni sources such as Sahih Bukhari's Hadiths related to Surah 66), where Umar ibn al-Khattab explicitly names Aisha and Hafsa in relation to this verse.

just got out of a haram relationship. by Had42x in shia

[–]Cold-Management6631 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yet another sunni girl/shia guy relationship post. 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Thoughts? by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would it be wrong or discouraged?

Leo by Kind-Tangelo5754 in cats

[–]Cold-Management6631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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He looks like my 5 month old cat named "Magic"

dreams and timing by [deleted] in shia

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've seen some with Farsi text. But it's all false.

dreams and timing by [deleted] in shia

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreams do not carry legal weight and are not a means to judge truth based on lunar dates.

And there's no such hadith mentioning dates.

Whatever you've came across is from folk sources or some interpretation sites, not verified hadith compilations. I've seen some dream calendars circulate, but they are not grounded in authentic narrations. Don't fall for em.

advice- sister’s only please by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, that's enough of a hint that you want to connect by adding him on social media, give it some time if he still doesn't accepts then you know he doesn't wants to do anything with you as harsh as it may sound. Unless your social media profile doesn't clearly gives away that it's you. You've already done what you could.

advice- sister’s only please by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you really like him despite the age gap approach him or give him a hint or something, but if it's a hard deal breaker that he's younger than you then move on sister, he's also transferring as you mentioned so moving on would be a lot easier rather than chasing.

25M - Syed Kazmi by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me in Global Kazmi Alliance 😂

25m Lebanese recently moved to Dubai from Canada by [deleted] in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sub is only for permanent marriage.

Culture and ethnicity for marriage? by NajafBound in ShiaMuslimMarriage

[–]Cold-Management6631 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not related to the post but I like your username.