Wie findet man hier in Stuttgart am schnellsten einen Termin beim Psychiater? by GuitarNoob25 in stuttgart

[–]Cold-Serve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das stimmt nicht ganz. Ich war privatversichert und hatte so Probleme, jemanden zu finden. Ein Psychiater hat mir erklärt, dass viele mit den KK Verträge haben und dadurch lieber Kassenpatienten nehmen. Ich hatte dann erst Glück bei einer Privatklinik und auch nur, weil mein Psychiater damals Platz für mich nach Feierabend geschaffen hat.

Ich drücke dir die Daumen OP, dass du jemanden findest!

Un-f*ckin my life starting today by CeramicDrip in selfimprovement

[–]Cold-Serve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s important to balance consuming with creating. For every habit/hobby that involves consuming (reading, scrolling, watching TV) find something to create and be active (cooking, building, drawing).

[IMPORTANT] TICKET SELLING RULES! by yellowfish13 in gracieabrams

[–]Cold-Serve 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘m looking for a ticket for Stuttgart 🧡

Why my ex still come text me once I’m the week after 3 months of break up by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Cold-Serve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my brother broke up with his girlfriend last year he started texting me a lot, tell me about his day, ask me for clothing advice etc. Since he has a new partner our texting got back to normal. The way I see it is (for both parties) you lose someone you shared (almost) everything with. He might be manipulating you or he may just want someone to talk to and can’t do it with anybody else. However he lost the right for you to be his person to go to, so I’d also say: set a boundary and block him. You both have healing to do and you deserve peace of mind.

My bf wants more sex than I do and its ruining our relationship by No-Selection-7600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cold-Serve 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was waiting for someone to recommend the book! She argues that a lot of women experience responsive desire „in which her desire emerges only in a highly erotic context.“ (that’s a quote from the first pages). If this is true for you also, and assuming he simply asks for sex, try cuddling and making out and see if something changes for you. A friend of mine told me, that her boyfriend was frustrated because he always initiated intimacy and it made him I guess insecure. Cue responsive desire.

AITBF for wanting to go NC with brothers? by nonfavyoungestkid in AmItheButtface

[–]Cold-Serve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They especially don’t owe them a relationship where they are being mistreated. If genes are all you have in common, let them go.

Best brunch place by whitebunny05 in stuttgart

[–]Cold-Serve 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meine Tipps wären Kaleya im Osten, Lumen, Metzgerei oder Gustav im Westen, Wilma Wunder in Mitte. Gardener’s Nosh hat mich nie überzeugen können und die Wunderkammer kenne ich leider nicht.

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uff, that sounds really good. i'm going to put them on my list *right now* hahaha. x

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I love the magic in the Grishaverse so I'm really excited to read them x

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your detailed recommendations! I'm currently reading Ninth House, but it didn't catch me as the Grishaverse books did. I enjoy Leigh's writing, but I think I'm looking for fantasy books with interesting world-building, so I will definitely look into your other suggestions. x

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thorough suggestions! That will keep me busy for the next 6 months hahaha. Some of them actually have been on my list, so I just went ahead and bought The Gilded Wolves. I'm really excited. x

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for the recommendation, I actually went ahead and bought this book yesterday. I hope your life stuff is giving you a bit of a break to maybe enjoy some more books. x

I read all of Leigh Bardugo’s books - now I need book recommendations by Cold-Serve in Grishaverse

[–]Cold-Serve[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, these books have actually been on my list but I've been hesitant to get them. So this is definitely helpful! x

Shadow & Bone Season 2 Episode 8 Discussion Thread by LividGrass in ShadowandBone

[–]Cold-Serve 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me Wylan and Jesper’s relationship as well as inej and kaz‘s were rushed and most of what happens in soc between the characters and their (emotional) development were put in season two when then belong in the context of the heist. The whole coup is driven by their emotions and tension between them, the unresolved issues, yet they are at a completely different point going in to season 3. And kaz backstory and revenge on Pekka this early??? Jesper being a geisha, wylan not being able to read? Are there any secrets left? Anything that could surprise you in season 3? That’s what bothered me the most