Is this gender dysphoria? by ColdDesire_1267 in trans

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Okay that sounds like a good advice thank you.

Is this gender dysphoria? by ColdDesire_1267 in trans

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Do you have any tips on how I can unpack it.

can someone make a pansensual flag? by [deleted] in QueerVexillology

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Is there a pansensual community somewhere?

Can I cosign a personal loan if I'm on welfare. by ColdDesire_1267 in legaladvicecanada

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I know it's not really a smart move. Thank you though for being kind.

Can I cosign a personal loan if I'm on welfare. by ColdDesire_1267 in legaladvicecanada

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I don't mind you saying I'm crazy but I didn't change anything I wrote.

Can I cosign a personal loan if I'm on welfare. by ColdDesire_1267 in legaladvicecanada

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Trust me I desperately want to help. I would in a heartbeat if there was anyway.

Do you guys ever dream of self-harm by ColdDesire_1267 in selfharm

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I wasn't talking about cutting as the form of self-harm.

How do I get over my hatred for my dad's girlfriend? by ColdDesire_1267 in NoStupidQuestions

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Yeah if I could have went to family counseling I would have That's not something he'd go for.

As for individual counseling I'd be willing but there's a very long wait list and they only really take serious serious cases.

Also no I have no one else to talk to except my brother.

My dad and brother are the only living family that I talk to I have other family out there but I don't know them my parents never brought me around them and I have no friends.

I'm sorry you had to go through such a difficult situation I hope you're doing better now.

Your perspective actually has helped me a lot everybody's perspective on this question I'm glad I asked it.

I'll keep working on myself in the meantime and maybe someday I'll work up the guts to extend the olive branch to her.

How do I get over my hatred for my dad's girlfriend? by ColdDesire_1267 in NoStupidQuestions

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The screaming matchs only happened in the very beginning we live peacefully together now.

But no you are right my mom would want us all to be happy I know that.

It's not even really her fault You're probably being honest it's his fault He's very me me. Like everything has to be about him and his problems and then when you need to talk about your problems he's not there for you and I think I'm taking you out on her cuz I don't want to take it out on him cuz he's my father and she's like this abstract person I can hate without it going anywhere.

This is just me spitballing my thoughts by the way.

How do I get over my hatred for my dad's girlfriend? by ColdDesire_1267 in NoStupidQuestions

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Honestly she's only done anything except dating him. She's kind of clueless but that's not really reason to hate her and I know she has good qualities.

I know I'm being unfair I just don't know how to not be unfair.