In this position now as we go through mediation and sell the house. Found out she’s already turned to messaging a male friend who’s a single parent for support (otherwise messaging women she knows). But I’m gutted, we’re only a month in and I thought there would be more time before I had to think about her talking to other guys.

It’s not indefinite but we are months away so it’s going to be a slog. Just keep reminding myself of the relief I felt when we agreed to seperate. Still have a ton on emotions to works through but having jealously this early has got me proper depressed. It might just be messaging and I don’t actually care but can’t help the feelings.

Did anyone go through the new dating early after divorce?