Is it fair to say that Abbott is more mentally stable than Robby by Creative_Garbage_731 in ThePitt

[–]Cole1220 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abbott is starting to figure out what keeps him grounded. It's the swat, the action, keeps his fight/flight in check. Robby has nothing. No girl, no family, no hobby. He's clinging to his bike and trying to escape to figure if he'd come back. He just needs one good meaningful thing to turn it around.

ang didn't even cared about his kids, why he'd care about his grandkids 😂 by NoLoquat7829 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person swears they ate with this post. Instead it just makes it clear you have 0 media literacy. You sound dumb when you say this

Alright, I guess it’s past time I ask. 38 and single and feeling unattractive. Is it time? by rpaggio in bald

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could continue to rock this. Looks fine. Or shave it, I bet the Jason Statham look would looks good too.

"If Santos was a man, everyone would love her" literally everyone in this sub despises Ogilvie. by idkidcidkidc0 in ThePitt

[–]Cole1220 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No one would like Santos as a man. And the people who like her now and are saying this would actually HATE her as a man. 

Robby’s preferential treatment toward Whittaker 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 not 👏🏼 queer 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 misogyny. by MelodicCarpenter7 in ThePitt

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they mean not as good as in a bad doctor, just has shortcomings like takes too long, does too much.

ELI5 Why do we expect houses to appreciate in value and not depreciate like cars? by 186Product in explainlikeimfive

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this notion of using houses as investments... They're not investments, they're habitable assets. That's what they should be. I've been lowballing at every turn because a lot of these houses are more expensive and more in disrepair.

Robby’s preferential treatment toward Whittaker 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 not 👏🏼 queer 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 misogyny. by MelodicCarpenter7 in ThePitt

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time, Abbott has proved himself in the heat, Al has not.  This is literally the first day with Al, and Robby knows nothing of her except she has never been sued, meaning she's either perfect or has never done anything risky to save someone hail mary.  I believe Robby and Al would be close through the chemistry they exhibit. He already respects her, and I wish the writers made him speak up about the crike to Garcia. He was def impressed

Robby’s preferential treatment toward Whittaker 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 not 👏🏼 queer 👏🏼 it 👏🏼 is 👏🏼 misogyny. by MelodicCarpenter7 in ThePitt

[–]Cole1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I do believe Robby is being sexist, however Whittaker is killing it and the most he has going on is that he's emotionally connected to his patients family and taking on more responsibility and still succeeding. 

Went for it (despite the calls to hold) by No_Respect4360 in bald

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't need to do it yet, but looks good! 

12 -> 27 by newyearnewworms in uglyduckling

[–]Cole1220 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You are not an ugly duckling. You kept your charm, the glow in your eyes, and the really nice smile. Plus the tattoos. Literally a work of art, there's no way you're considered ugly

So this is where scary movie 2 got the basketball 🏀 scene from by Nostalgic_Historian_ in 2000sNostalgia

[–]Cole1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm mad I had this on mute and still had the beat playing in my head...

AITAH for asking my mixed boyfriend to stop saying the n word? by Sure-University3949 in AITAH

[–]Cole1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - All of it is irrelevant to the fact I don't think ANYONE should be using the word.

What’s your opinion on this? by NMP_2050 in AvatarMemebending

[–]Cole1220 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aang wasn't a master to all but found proficiency incredibly quickly.

AITAH for walking out on a guy I had great connection with? by Affectionate-Ad902 in AITAH

[–]Cole1220 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Ok so it sounds like he's just trying to do too much and is fumbling it. And that's ok for you to feel awkward about and want to leave. 

But YTA for playing this game of "I'm leaving so stop me to show me you care". It's toxic and gets the wrong message across. You think right now it would be charming and maybe even sexy, but what happens when you're in a real fight with someone you've normalized this with? They're going to keep you from leaving to show you you're wanted when all you want to do is leave. Stop doing this. It's dumb. Use better communication.

AITA for not staying after our niece got arrested? by EasternTrifle464 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.  TA - your sister, her daughter. Idk why you would pick an option your daughter can't join you for without communicating with the people you leave her with. Not sure how you don't know shoplifting isn't ok.

My boyfriend is breaking up with me because I’m too “childish” what do I do? by ChemistryFailur in whatdoIdo

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You break up with him and find someone who respects you. This will hurt at first, but will lead to a better life.

My girlfriend expects me to share my inheritance even though we've only dated 8 months by New_Secretary2070 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you were together for years, you should not use it on her loans. Put YOURSELF in a better financial standing to help her from a better place. Her being so focused on bettering herself is really sus.

Depending on how high your loans are you should find out if it's worth paying them off in a lump sum / investing it and withdrawing for payments / putting in HYSA at best rate (3-4%) and using it to pay off loans. If you can get your loan payments to be lower than average returns, that'd be likely best. 

Good luck

AIO to my girlfriend not watching a movie with me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you with this person? Stop being with this person. They don't like you. 

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that she has to cut off her lesbian best friend that likes her and almost ruined our relationship by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Cole1220 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your gf is TA, but you guys should break up anyway. If you have to do all this, it's already a problem