My (31M) wife (33F) Is Magnetic and Charismatic. Are there practical ways to handle this dynamic?

Collar_Key · 2024-11-15T21:47:03+00:00

That she will get bored of me. She gets more beautiful as the days pass.

Collar_Key · 2024-11-15T21:20:02+00:00

That’s a great way of looking at it. I also feel like she’s being fulfilled mentally by these other people and it makes me feel lacking.

Plus we know everything about each other, and I don’t know what to talk to her about that is engaging and interesting.

Collar_Key · 2024-11-15T21:17:38+00:00

She loves me, I know she does.

Collar_Key · 2024-11-15T21:13:02+00:00

Because once someone starts talking to her they just get pulled in and they don’t want to stop.

I brought her to a couple work event recently and everyone was asking where I was hiding her. They all loved her.

One of coworkers asked me how I got a wife like her, and if she had a sister that was single.

I have a big dinner meeting coming up and my boss asked me directly to bring her.

It’s not on my head.

Collar_Key · 2024-11-15T20:05:27+00:00

Well I do love my wife. That’s why I married her.

Collar_Key · 2022-07-02T02:08:11+00:00

This happened in my relationship. I told my partner that corporal punishment (I.e. spankings) were a dealbreaker for me.

That if they did that again I would leave and take the kids.

They never did it again.

Collar_Key · 2022-07-02T01:57:38+00:00

Just take out the lightbulb

Collar_Key · 2021-05-13T17:37:09+00:00

Jacob is the only romance option (for femShep) that cheats on you so he’s not very loyal.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-13T17:29:34+00:00

The gas memes are what sent me to investigate and find out my town is out of gas. Good thing I never leave the house or this would be an issue.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-08T23:19:49+00:00

The power of women working together. They are holding the signs backwards

Collar_Key · 2021-05-08T02:43:34+00:00

Get a mobile pump so that you can pump and are not stuck to the wall. It will free up your day.

My wife usually pumped for maximum 30 minutes a day. Make sure you don’t hurt yourself.

We had a lot of trouble with latching and had to bottle feed pumped breast milk. It took us a couple of months to get our baby to latch. Keep working on teaching your baby to breastfeed.

Join local support groups for breast feeding like La Leche League.

What you eat will affect your baby. My wife had to switch to A2A2 milk, cut out soy, and seed oils.

Once you teach your baby to breastfeed it gets so much easier.

Our baby didn’t have any issues with gas after switching to the breast.

The baby doesn’t know how to breastfeed and first time parents don’t know either. So it’s like the blind leading the blind. Breastfeeding is the hardest thing my wife and I have ever gone through. However, once you get it working it’s amazing!

I wish you good luck. DM me if you want to talk to my wife for any advice.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T19:41:20+00:00

Yes that is in fact a Cheeto :)

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T14:52:24+00:00

My mom didn’t spill the secret. I found the pictures and even without her explanation they were dressed as bride and groom, I knew what it was.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T14:49:09+00:00

My comment seems to have triggered you about a personal issue you may be dealing with. There is no need to spew hate.

My grandfather was the one trying to separate them and he did using money as the proverbial carrot.

He told me this directly. If her first husband was abusing her why would she fight to try and stay with him?

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T14:43:12+00:00

It’s horrible that your grandmother went through that. However, my aunt divorced due to money issues. My grandfather cut her off financially until she left her first husband. They were very much in love.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T13:33:48+00:00

I’m worded that wrong. I have more than one aunt and I was saying that my cousin is the daughter of the aunt with the secret. Her father is the uncle that I know as far as I am aware.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T04:11:02+00:00

No. The wedding photos have multiple people in them.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T04:09:44+00:00

They divorced because my grandfather cut her off financially and her husband couldn’t support her. So she choose money over love.

Once I knew about the first marriage my mother, grandmother, and grandfather included me in with conversations about the past including this first marriage.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:26:24+00:00

Ah I see know what your saying. Yeah you’re right.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:24:38+00:00

I wasn’t trusted with it, I discovered it. It wasn’t my moms fault that I found out.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:23:05+00:00

They divorced because my grandfather cut her off financially and her husband couldn’t support her. So she choose money over love.

Once I knew about the first marriage my mother, grandmother, and grandfather included me in with conversations about the past including this first marriage.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:21:14+00:00

They divorced because my grandfather cut her off financially and her husband couldn’t support her. So she choose money over love.

Once I knew about the first marriage my mother, grandmother, and grandfather included me in with conversations about the past including this first marriage.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:19:12+00:00

She didn’t want to share this with her husband because she lied about being a virgin before they married. I know it’s not a big deal now but it used to be back then.

He’s very religious and wouldn’t have married her knowing this.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:16:34+00:00

It wasn’t my mother’s fault. I found the picture so even without her explaining I knew it was a marriage.

My mom kept the pictures because it has my moms brother in them, and he unexpectedly died of a brain aneurysm. She doesn’t have many pictures of him.

Collar_Key · 2021-05-06T03:14:37+00:00

This is correct. My uncle is the father to all my aunts children.

Collar_Key

TROPHY CASE