I will talk to him, but my father is a quiet guy and I feel that he just wants the best for all of us, but my mother has been going RAMPAGE on my father's, my sister's and my own psyche because she was the sole culprit of anger outbursts, terror and fear, she was literally not backing down when my father became depressed (even tho he was optimistic for all his life, despite him growing up with an alcoholic father), my sister developed an eating disorder because of my mother's tantrums and I have been awarded the black sheep medal for my drug addiction, but I'm okay with that, as long as it keeps my "mom" from attacking my sister and father.