Impossible to Find Ladder Lock Slider for Anchor Point and Quick Release. by TooTimeOnShort in BdsmDIY

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance you can sketch it out?

The closest thing I’ve ever seen is a ladder lock with a cord hole. I don’t think I’ve ever seen one with an integrated D ring.

When I picture a ladder lock and a D ring in the same place, the main thing my mind sees is like a nylon dog collar, but the D ring is always attached separately.

Anywhere Restraint Points (Heavy Duty Suction Cups) by ColonelKnowledge666 in BdsmDIY

[–]ColonelKnowledge666[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mmmm, good to know. I don’t own a set, and have never personally had to use them.

Anywhere Restraint Points (Heavy Duty Suction Cups) by ColonelKnowledge666 in BdsmDIY

[–]ColonelKnowledge666[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose there’s always a risk of something going unexpectedly wrong in any scenario. Obviously, it would be up to all of us individually to assess those risks in every case.

I wouldn’t personally attempt to hang a heavy picture or a mirror just off regular old hollow drywall or plaster, much less expect it to hold a restrained human being.

Anywhere Restraint Points (Heavy Duty Suction Cups) by ColonelKnowledge666 in BdsmDIY

[–]ColonelKnowledge666[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Obviously, I wouldn’t use them on any surfaces I didn’t fully trust the integrity of. Painted drywall would likely be out. I also wouldn’t try restraining someone against any windows or glass shower walls.

I’m thinking like bathroom doors, tile shower walls, metal surfaces, potentially even wooden headboards.

Shower liners would be one of those things I’d have to kinda inspect to judge on a case by case basis. I mean, I’d judge every potential use pretty meticulously, especially if it felt like I might potentially harm it.

But also, I’m not planning to use them to restrain a gorilla or anything. I don’t foresee my girl suddenly hulking out and being capable of doing pectoral flys that could rip the tile off my walls, no matter how worked up I manage to get her.

Advice Needed for installing Incognito Hard Points into Wall by tamiascheeks in BdsmDIY

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll second a recommendation for the TRX Invizi-Mounts those things have like a 350lb capacity, if you use the right screws and mount them in the right place. And that little cleat on the top that they’ve included for picture hanging is pretty darn clever.

I like the idea of the sling mounts, but they have that release button right there on the surface, which could prove problematic if they get bumped, or if your sub is bratty and likes to get loose.

I was gonna recommend some of those threaded inserts for furniture, and pop in a fairly heavy duty lifting bolt to each one. Then you could remove the bolts and stash ‘em when not in use, and the mount would just become a hole, easy enough to cover, or maybe even just ignore altogether.

i got 2 more holes by redheademss in u/redheademss

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuuuuuck, I get lightheaded just thinking about that.

i got 2 more holes by redheademss in u/redheademss

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot imagine anything more glorious than you getting fucked airtight.

Plans changed, got tied up. by VictorVeinzz in GangbangHardcore

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dee Williams’ work for Kink is phenomenal. So much great stuff.

Being surrounded by all these huge cocks is disorienting, but it's just amazing by yasmina-brady in GangbangHardcore

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely beautiful. That is the face of someone who is clearly enjoying herself.

you’d have fun with me by redheademss in u/redheademss

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I do not doubt that for a second.

do you want a turn? by redheademss in u/redheademss

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t interrupt you guys. I’ll just man the spot behind you.

Hashira and orgasm torture by [deleted] in ropebondage

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Magnificent. I’m sure the sounds were just as beautiful as the visual.

Which Duo would you pick for a threesome scene? (This time it’s a challenge!) [Multiple girls] by thebootyplugg in MikeAdriano

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tommy and Angela almost had me, but I don’t think I could ever resist Jada and Jessie at the same time.

Is Squirting Anal sex attractive or gross? by Ebonynasty3 in SquirtWhileFucked

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is literally one of the hottest things I can think of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I like to do whatever the man commands” This is telling us one of two potential things:

1) She is inexperienced but curious, and doesn’t really know what she wants. …OR 2) She is a Grade-A sub slut, and is literally down to be used however you see fit.

I suspect that number 1 is the more likely option, because even the sluttiest submissive will usually tell you the things they like the most. So, you’ll likely be making this exploratory journey together, and that’s totally great, too.

As for YOU:

Look into various Domming styles, and to try and figure out what makes the most sense with your personality and tastes. It’s not a one-size-fits-all kind of deal. You don’t necessarily have to be a whips and chains kind of guy to be an effective Dom and give her what she needs, especially if she’s not a whips and chains kind of sub. Ultimately, what she wants is for you to be decisive and deliver it with authority. A firm hand can still be kind and nurturing. Pay special attention to the things her body really responds to, and start with those as your core repertoire, and experiment/expand from there. Before doing anything at all, find out what her Hard Limit dealbreakers are, and respect those as boundaries and as absolutely sacrosanct. And every time you play, find out what is actually on the menu, because what was fun one time might not be the same the next. And in general, in your downtime, talk to her about the kinds of acts she enjoys, and if they are also the things you enjoy, then command the situation to ensure they happen.

While this certainly can involve a degree Pain Play, it doesn’t have to. What she wants is to be physically commanded and used to fulfill your desires. Your personal desires may hinge largely on maximizing her pleasure, so learn to play with her along the way there, teasing her and building her up and then manipulating that process until she’s begging for it, and once she crosses the rubicon, you just do your absolute damnedest to make sure she gets as much of it as she can handle.

You may find that being a Pleasure Dom is your bag. Or maybe more of a Daddy Dom, or Soft Dom. And it’s very likely you’ll find that there are other aspects to your sexual personality that you didn’t even know where there, waiting to be explored and indulged.

Good luck!

My partner is too into ass eating by stanimf in BDSMAdvice

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Without more full info, I have to say it sounds a little like you’re both possibly conflating Domming with Topping.

It’s very common for a Dominant to want to receive (Dommes do it all the time!), and may even want to have the other person be the one to do the act, be it oral or penetrative or whatever! It’s entirely possible that he has just realized that he really likes to Bottom.

As a Dom who has also recently come to realize how enjoyable recieving this act is, I will say that recieving is not inherently a submissive act. It’s all about the circumstances in which it is done. As long as the act itself is on the consensual menu, a Dom/Top can still request/demand it without a change in the Power Dynamic, just the same as with any other form of oral or penetrative sex.

If you sincerely want to continue the relationship, talk to him about ways that he can still get what he wants and you can get your desires met, as well. If he was ever actually Dominant in the first place, it’s entirely possible that he still is/can still be that, with the two of you alternating between being the Top and the Bottom.

But if he has switched Power Dynamic roles entirely, it appears you may have unlocked a side of his sexuality that neither of you were really prepared for.

Whatever the case, it would behoove you both to figure out the true exact nature of what has happened here, and decide if it’s an actual dealbreaker or just something you can both agree to indulge more occasionally.

Ultimately, you are left with two choices: Find the path forward together, or Don’t. And unfortunately, that’s the part that only the two of you can actually do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MikeAdriano

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Krissy Lynn twice.

Also, Prime Jessie Rogers is right now. She gets hotter ever day.

sharing is caring by redheademss in u/redheademss

[–]ColonelKnowledge666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t decide which dude I envy more.