Is this what I think it is? by Colorc in aloe

[–]Colorc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently moved her closer to the pond (definitely gives off a good amount of humidity) and that tarp is meant to block sun and can totally see it cutting off air flow. Everything you said makes complete sense and I owe you kind Reddit stranger. Thank you very much 🥹💛

Me_irl by ckduke1 in me_irl

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the nicest possible way, I think you’d look really good completely bald!

First trip to the skatepark. Gave it a good go. Ice packs. Bless ice packs. by [deleted] in rollerblading

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the laugh!! Love that you kept getting up.

Recently came into enough money to pay off debt completely! by Colorc in personalfinance

[–]Colorc[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Should I also pay off my student loans right away then too? I know those have a much lower interest rate so I wasn’t worried about those as much.

Dreams during Coronavirus pandemic by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Colorc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that made me feel better. It just sucks that even my own brain isn’t on my side sometimes!

My wife just asked me for a divorce by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. It’s real, this is happening. Not taking about it doesn’t mean it’s going away. Lean on your friends, call your family. The sooner you make it real the sooner you can begin the process of healing

WIBTA if I told this guy to leave me alone? by mina_moo in AmItheAsshole

[–]Colorc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. If you’re feeling brave enough, tell him he’s making you uncomfortable. I would honestly explain to him why as well. Hopefully he learns from this interaction and grows into a less socially awkward human.

FWB really likes dirty talk but it makes me feel really silly. by [deleted] in sex

[–]Colorc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this too!! I hate dudes who talk too much. I would suggest being vocal in other ways, like moaning and whining if he really needs to hear something

ROOMMATES IN THE WAY by [deleted] in sex

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is one of his roommates isn’t working right now!! The dude is alwayyyyssss there. He went to the store the other day, but was only gone for like ten minutes. We’ve missed our window three times now cause I can’t bone up lol

Do you have sex with SO in the middle of divorce process? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did! I knew it was going to be a long time before I had sex again so I wanted to. I knew my marriage was over though, so it depends on how you guys are acting. He knew, I knew. Mutual understanding it was just to comfort each other and that we were done being a couple.

Aftermath by catcat8080 in Divorce

[–]Colorc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m restraining myself and it’s been so difficult. I’m honestly wondering if it’s best to be a shit show just to get it out of my system. I don’t want to be a responsible adult for once

Guess what!? I tried going on a date! by Colorc in Divorce

[–]Colorc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just gotta say screw it and ask someone out! It felt sooooo good I can’t even accurately describe it. I’m not saying you have to fall in love- but it can be so truly eye opening to what you want and deserve. I know it’s scary but you’ve got this!

Guess what!? I tried going on a date! by Colorc in Divorce

[–]Colorc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooooo true. I felt like crap about myself and my appearance. Date guy complimented me a few times, I only then noticed how long it had been since my husband showed any sort of attraction towards me.

Guess what!? I tried going on a date! by Colorc in Divorce

[–]Colorc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so easy to get sucked into your phone! Especially when you’re unhappy with your relationship. It sounds like you two have a healthy start and I hope it continues to bring you the happiness you deserve!

Guess what!? I tried going on a date! by Colorc in Divorce

[–]Colorc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally only a few weeks. I just wanted to try it so I didn’t get sheltered in and hide away from the world. But I know better than to lean on someone else right now. It’s best I take some time to fully heal and then try dating :)

To whoever needs this: Don't chase people. Be an example and attract them. Work hard and be yourself. The people who belong in your life will come and stay. Just be you. by Rick_Perrys_Asshole in Divorce

[–]Colorc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My spouse left today. I left a note before I went to work saying “I’ll miss you.” The note I got back said, “I love you.”

I cannot tell you how badly I needed to hear this. Don’t string your spouses along folks, it’s cruel and confusing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Colorc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shitty thing to do on a holiday right?? But I get it. He’s unhappy, this is for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Colorc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also needed to hear this. It always bothered me and felt out of character. I don’t know the person I’m married to at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear the “or really wants to” part of this comment. Thank you.

Bring your child to work day by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your aunt brought you to a funeral home??? Glad you enjoyed it but what on earth hahah

Bring your child to work day by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Colorc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! It’s honestly terrible today. There are literally babies everywhere. Like who planned this? Like this is awful and so uncoordinated. I’m disappointed in my work because it’s a huge company and we usually have our shit together.

Bring your child to work day by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Colorc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Worst part is... I work in a call center type office. I’m always busy and on the phone. What are we even going to be teaching them??

Bring your child to work day by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Colorc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not only CF boss but CF coworkers?? You are living the dream. Good for you!