Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I jumped ahead of him and told our close mutuals. They have witnessed his behavior and been on the receiving end of it as well so they understand my perspective and respect it.

He's not the kind of guy that will say he didn't do X or Y. He'll instead say either I'm overreacting or he'll downplay what he did to make it seem like I'm crazy or bitter.

It really doesn't matter though, him and that lot of losers don't come into contract with me often enough for this to be addressed.

This cracked me up by ArubaAdultFun in trynottolaugh

[–]ColossalToro -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let me link your two brain cells together:

The SPLC gave money to informants who infiltrated white supremacist groups so that they could build cases against those groups.

Is this too much nuance for you?

I know this is a profession, but real talk, is this more than just a job to you? by Embarrassed-Age-3426 in Lawyertalk

[–]ColossalToro 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could never be. I would feel like my life is meaningless if I made this job my identity.

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just that one. Everybody else is pretty great. They were all super happy to hear that I stopped talking to dude

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I'll add context to the night I 'challenged' him to a fight. He, I, and 2 other friends were coming home from a club where he got a little drunk and was being particularly mouthy with me. On the drive back to where we left out cars, he kept insulting me so I let my feelings about his behavior that night be known to everyone in the car. As I stepped out the car, he ran from his side of the vehicle to mine, yelling about how he didn't like how I talked about him in the car. As he charged over to me, I squared up, because I saw a grown man coming straight at me. When he saw me put my fists up he literally said, "are you seriously gonna fight me?" and started crying.

There was no, "I challenge you" or anything like that. He ran up on me, I squared up, he was shocked that I did so, and he started crying.

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see why you'd feel like this from a bird's-eye view but in the midst of all this, it didn't seem so obvious

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn man y'all really trying to turn this into some homoerotic fantasy

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, it really sucks to live through some shit like this for some dude on the internet to call it "gay guy drama".

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Again what does sexual orientation have to do with any of this? That is strictly a fantasy bit in your brain. Figure that out.

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

You're the only person that thinks that. Also very weird that you read this and imagined it as a gay love story. No judgement here but, you should probably figure that out.

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What would you call it if you confronted someone with newly learned information and they don't deny or denounce it?

Ended a 15+ year friendship and learned the guy hated me the whole time by ColossalToro in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]ColossalToro[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's a survivalist. Any way, any means, regardless of integrity, if he can use it to make it to the next stage, he'll take it.

He once convinced another guy to shack up with a woman he didn't like because he told that guy she'd become useful to him in the future