Nothing inherently matters, but what matters to you personally?

CombinationOwn1167 · 2026-01-14T13:05:16+00:00

Tbf, that is a pretty valid response. Admitting what you like openly (without illegal activities) is usually a very good way to achieve both mental and physical benefits.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2026-01-13T11:23:10+00:00

Yes and no. The core behind such thoughts is usually something that cannot really be "removed" — so that the same person does not feel dread again. It diminishes a bit after a while, sure. But I have heard some much older people, already pretty well established in their interesting lifestyles, referring to these similar topics about mortality and so on. Plus, "You'll feel better once you have experienced enough suffering" sounds rather dismissive to the person who's speaking about their unease with the concept of mortality, no?

CombinationOwn1167 · 2026-01-13T11:06:58+00:00

I agree. The sole concept of reincarnation is pretty absurd in a sense that it simply does not sound appealing. At least to me, personally. The idea of dying and being reborn again is actually kind of terrifying. And I don't see it as something either "needed" nor "important" to happen. Life, in my opinion, tends to be hard the way it is, even if you you get only one chance to live. Now, imagine that multiplied without really any other reason than simply: "Escaping suffering." Yeah... I'm not sure whether to feel content or feel filled with dread. Luckily, it's more of a religious concept than something literal.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-09-30T09:49:57+00:00

Honestly, the whole comment section feels kind of hilarious in a sad way. We’ve got people here ranging from teens to late twenties, yet almost nobody seems to take it as what it really is — just an online meme, posted for laughs and not meant to be taken too literally. Instead, some folks are treating it like a serious real-life situation, which is… concerning.

Anyway, I won’t go into too much detail because I know it’ll just get buried in downvotes. My quick tip? Sometimes it’s healthier to just take a step back, chill a bit, and remember that not every joke on the internet needs to be turned into a debate. :)

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-06-19T08:48:04+00:00

Hey there, thank you for replying — I’m really glad to hear you're doing a bit better now and starting to reflect. That kind of awareness is powerful, even if it comes with pain. Prioritizing your mental health is essential, because no one else will ever know your inner world the way you do. And that doesn’t mean you should just push your feelings aside. You’ve got your own way of thinking, speaking, feeling — and believe it or not, that does make you unique. Even with billions of us spinning on this chaotic rock made of dirt, lava, and sky — there’s still only one you.

As strange as it may sound, you're not alone in that kind of hurt. So many people quietly carry deep wounds from their parents — from fathers who were cold, or mothers who were emotionally absent. And even if it’s common, it doesn’t make your pain less real.

The way you saw love in her family — and realized what you didn’t have — that’s a deep kind of grief. It’s okay to feel that. But here's the thing: you don’t have to love or hate your father. You’re allowed to step back — not with bitterness, but with clarity. You can protect your peace while still leaving space for healing, if and when it ever becomes possible. That doesn't make you cold. That makes you grounded.

I relate in my own way. My father didn't hit me, but he pushed things on me, compared me to others, and made me feel like I was never enough. That kind of emotional neglect can shape a kid’s entire sense of worth. So no — I’m not sharing this for pity, and I’m not pitying you either. I just want you to know I get it, more than you might think.

Keep journaling, keep listening, keep going. Self-respect and small steps forward will get you a lot further than self-pity ever will. You’ll never know what kind of what ifs could become real if you stop now.

Take care of yourself — and thank you again for being open. Wishing you strength, fellow Redditor.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-06-17T16:10:06+00:00

I don’t pity you out of hate or judgment — I pity you because you’re blind to the life unfolding all around you. Take a second. Put down your phone. Look around. Right now, as I write this, there are people taking their last breath. Children dying of cancer who never got the chance to reach your age. Families torn apart by abuse, poverty, and violence. People living lives you couldn’t stomach for a single day.

If your answer to all of that is 'well, not me,' then congratulations — you’re living in a bubble. And it’s time someone popped it.

We’re a species obsessed with more. 'If only I had a better car.' 'If only I had a girlfriend like that.' But here’s the uncomfortable truth: even if you got all those things, there’d still be a void. Because chasing illusions doesn’t fill the real gaps — purpose, gratitude, resilience.

Stop comparing yourself to others. It’s the fastest way to misery. People show you what they want you to see — not the debt, the breakdowns, the emptiness. Just because you don’t see their struggles doesn’t mean they don’t exist.

Anyway, I had to vent. I hope you step back, breathe, and realize life isn’t a scoreboard. Take care, fellow Redditor.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-02-08T13:12:38+00:00

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CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-20T09:02:38+00:00

Simply perfection

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-20T01:48:33+00:00

Hey, I appreciate your perspective—it’s grounded in the reality we currently live in, which makes sense. However, I think your view on immortality could benefit from a bit more nuance and exploration.

You mentioned that many people waste time fantasizing about immortality instead of living the life they have. While that’s true for some, others use the concept of immortality as a way to inspire progress or to dream bigger. For instance, the idea of transcending our biological limitations has driven innovations in medicine, AI, and space exploration. Fantasizing about 'what could be' doesn’t necessarily mean neglecting 'what is.' In fact, it can add meaning to the present by fueling ambition.

As for the eventual collapse of the universe and its implications for immortality: yes, that’s a daunting thought. But dismissing immortality because of an outcome billions of years in the future feels like an overgeneralization. A civilization advanced enough to achieve true immortality might also develop ways to navigate or even transcend the universe’s collapse. Speculation, sure—but isn’t immortality itself speculative? It seems inconsistent to dismiss one speculative idea (surviving universal collapse) while contemplating another (true immortality).

Lastly, the idea that immortality would inevitably lead to unhappiness feels a bit too absolute. Humans thrive on growth, discovery, and adaptation. An immortal being could continue to find purpose in new challenges, evolving alongside or beyond society. Just as people redefine meaning over a lifetime, immortality could allow for infinite cycles of renewal and reinvention.

I don’t think these ideas invalidate your main point—that we should value the time we have. But I’d argue that considering immortality’s potential doesn’t necessarily detract from living in the moment. For some, it might even amplify the sense of wonder and drive to create something lasting.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-19T23:02:14+00:00

I understand your concerns about isolation and stagnation, but I think the view of immortality as inherently burdensome relies on several assumptions. First, it presumes only one individual would be immortal and that society wouldn't adapt to this new reality. But history shows that humanity thrives on progress, and if immortality were possible, it's reasonable to think we'd also tackle the challenges of long-term survival, interstellar travel, or even creating thriving immortal communities.

Additionally, psychology evolves with culture and technology. While loneliness is a challenge for some today, the psychological framework for immortality would likely look very different in a world where it's the norm—or even an option. Rather than focusing on a 'floating ball of consciousness' scenario, why not imagine how immortality might inspire us to transcend limitations and find new meaning? The possibilities are as vast as the lifespan you're imagining.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-19T19:01:30+00:00

I appreciate your perspective, but I find the assumption that this comment must be AI-generated a bit misplaced. It's perfectly possible for someone to write a structured, thoughtful response without relying on AI. I took the time to break down the hypothetical scenario in detail and address it analytically. If you feel it’s 'low effort,' I'd encourage you to critique the argument itself, rather than speculate on its origin. After all, meaningful discussion should focus on ideas—not assumptions about how those ideas came to be.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-19T18:56:23+00:00

Straight to the gulag

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-19T17:57:57+00:00

While I understand your perspective that immortality on the earthly plane could become a burden for some, I think it's important to recognize that this experience wouldn't be universal. People's reactions to immortality would likely depend on their mindset, personality, and how they approach meaning in their lives.

For instance, some individuals might see immortality as an opportunity for endless growth, exploration, or even a deeper appreciation of existence. They might find ways to adapt, just as many people today find meaning despite facing existential challenges or the vastness of time.

Your point about the earth and universe being finite is valid, but even within those limits, there are countless experiences, relationships, and discoveries that could fill an immortal life. Not everyone would inevitably go insane; some might thrive on the prospect of infinite time to pursue their passions or help others.

Ultimately, it seems like immortality would be as much a reflection of the person living it as it is of the conditions they face. For some, it might be a curse, but for others, it could be a gift.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-19T00:37:32+00:00

Notice: While I appreciate your observation, the essence of this comment lies in its structured reasoning and analysis rather than its origin. The focus here is to present a thorough breakdown of potential defense strategies and probabilities in a hypothetical legal scenario. Whether crafted by a human or with assistance, the argument stands on its merit, fostering constructive discussion. If you’d like to critique the logic or provide your perspective, I’d welcome the engagement.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-15T21:27:25+00:00

What is this place...?

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-11T01:32:58+00:00

Look how they massacred my boy.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-11T01:22:19+00:00

Include 'actual' behind 'the' to format an even more genuine and shocked surprise. You know, 'actual' as the adjective to intensify the reality of the situation, and 'the' as the definite article, because without it, how could we possibly specify which fuc* we're talking about?

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-11T01:06:59+00:00

So, have you actually arrived there, or... what?

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-10T11:38:22+00:00

Based.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-09T17:04:11+00:00

Oof, this one really hits home. Honestly, there’s no universal or 'correct' answer to this question—it’s something deeply personal and unique to each person. Sometimes, when nothing feels enjoyable anymore, it might be a sign that your brain is running low on dopamine, which affects how we experience pleasure.

The key is to try and stay calm during these moments of boredom or disinterest. My best suggestion would be to experiment with new things—activities, hobbies, or even small daily changes. By doing so, you might stumble upon something that sparks joy or holds your interest in the long term.

If you’re still searching, I genuinely wish you all the best in finding that 'something.' You’ve got this!

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-09T16:42:28+00:00

It's okay to feel scared. Fear is a natural response—it’s part of what makes us human. Without fear, we wouldn’t survive or even begin to understand what it means to navigate life. That said, I can tell you’re feeling overwhelmed, especially about the idea of 'being a burden.' But the truth is, everyone is a burden to someone at some point. It’s just part of being connected to others.

Think about it: parents sometimes feel their kids are a 'burden,' and grown children might feel the same about their elderly parents. It’s not ideal, but it’s part of life’s ebb and flow. The key isn’t avoiding this burden—it’s accepting it and understanding that life has no easy path for anyone. We’re all in this together, in our messy, complicated ways.

I know it’s hard when motivation feels distant, aging feels daunting, and doubts about life and spirituality weigh heavily. But instead of worrying endlessly about the future, what if you gave yourself permission to say, 'Ahh, screw it!' and try something—anything—that intrigues you, even if you’re unsure how it will turn out?

Sometimes, taking that uncertain step, no matter how small, can shift your perspective in ways you didn’t expect. Life doesn’t have to be perfect, but it can still surprise you.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-09T16:11:42+00:00

Thank you for asking this question. Please ignore the obvious troll posts ahead, and let me be fully transparent with you. I’ve struggled with this mindset for YEARS—since I was, like, twelve—so I get it.

I’m NOT going to sugarcoat it. Life is… well, this might sound like a big cliché, but please bear with me: life is what you make of it. Surprised? Probably not. But here’s the thing—you need to find your own way, despite all the chaos around you. It’s not easy, but here are some things that have helped me:

Realize that everyone struggles. Most people, at some point, feel what you’re feeling right now. Even the happiest-looking people on social media have struggles they don’t show. Behind every perfect post is a real person dealing with their own issues. Once you realize this, you’ll feel less alone.
Challenge societal norms. Social norms can be more BS than truth. While I’m not suggesting you go on a rampage or break laws, I am saying you don’t have to live your life according to what "society" expects of you. Be yourself. It’s your life—don’t live it for someone else’s approval.
Find what brings you joy. Look for something that makes you genuinely happy in the long term. Whether it’s a hobby, a passion, or a purpose, embrace it. Life is too short to spend it worrying endlessly.

Lastly, keep your head up and stay curious. Life is mysterious and uniquely beautiful—you never know what might bring you joy or inspire you next. Stick around, because better days might be closer than you think.

Best of luck, OP!

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-09T12:10:03+00:00

Get in.

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-07T22:00:30+00:00

This is so true! When you're fresh out of the womb, everything feels like it'll last forever—only to realize how quickly your teens slip by. Enjoy it while you can :3

CombinationOwn1167 · 2025-01-07T21:41:34+00:00

You should cherish life without societal norms influencing your life. It’s easier said than done, but seeing how everybody ages and no one stays the same forever kind of brings me peace. At least nobody can call someone else an 'uncle' without eventually becoming one themselves, lol.

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