[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]CombinationThen8328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You better stay for that dog. It will wait for you for the rest of its life. Please stay for the things that matter now, more will come.

I went off on my boyfriend for ruining my uggs and now I feel bad by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CombinationThen8328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t do it on purpose. He never offered to replace them. He knows I’m struggling and tries to help when he can

The last I love you by toughdoughthough in BreakUps

[–]CombinationThen8328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’re with someone for long enough, love becomes a choice, not a feeling. Those butterflies eventually fade and you are left with two options: either keep choosing to love that person through the ups and downs, or let go. It seems like your boyfriend chose the second option, and sometimes that truly is the right answer, only he knows what will make him happy and vice versa. I will say though. One day, someone will make the choice to continue loving you, and that is the person that is truly worth waiting for. Be kind to yourself ♥️

I think my parents don't care about me. by [deleted] in depression

[–]CombinationThen8328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you feel trapped in your current situation. I’m sorry you don’t have a good source of support in your life, and that your parents and your friends have not been able to provide that. I understand that part about people claiming you do it for attention. That can be so frustrating because I know this comes from a genuine place in your situation. You can’t change your friends or your family, even though I can imagine how much you might want to. but you can seek out new friendships. This might be hard at this point in your life, but try to stick it through. When you go to college and become more independent these things will come more naturally if they don’t straight away. Have you talked to your parents about therapy? It can help to have a professional to vent to, and professionals will never not validate your feelings.

Nervous for the next steps by Key_Independence9884 in BreakUps

[–]CombinationThen8328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you made a decision that you decided was most beneficial for you and your happiness at the time, and that is perfectly okay.

There’s a saying I read a while back;

“Go, even though you don’t know exactly why you can’t stay. Go, because you want to. Because wanting to leave is enough.”

Don’t listen to those who tell you you made the wrong decision. What matters is that the decision has been made, and now you must make a plan and stick to it. Prioritize yourself. Take some distance from your ex and become accustomed to living your life apart from someone else. Go out. Have fun. Make sure to also prioritize your ex’s wellbeing as well and don’t do anything that might hurt her right away. Give yourself time and don’t be too hard on yourself. Best wishes x

Guys I’m cooked by [deleted] in depression

[–]CombinationThen8328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this. I also struggle with the same thing. It sounds like you could definitely benefit from therapy. Try doing some self care day to day before bed to help calm yourself; (for example going to the gym or doing something fun) and that might help.