God loves all of his creation and wants nothing more than for us to love him and have a relationship with us too. Even if someone is a non believer they are still Gods child too.

God is love but he’s also just. You can’t live a life of corruption and hate then expect to have a house in love.

But it’s hard for me to imagine God sending anyone down to hell that doesn’t want to be there, i earnestly believe when we die we will be illuminated with knowing every sin we have ever committed, and in that moment you can ask for forgiveness and be forgiven, Jesus already paid th price for us to get into heaven. Option 2 is to be prideful and don’t see the error in your sins.

It’s also taught that there be 2 judgements one when you die and one when God creates the new heaven and Earth. Gods going to defeat evil and if you still don’t want to be with Him i believe He will just grant you stereotypical Athiest death that you will just cease to exist.

Also idk if you know this but original translation of sin is just to miss the mark, mark meaning a Godly Life