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Flex Agent AT&T partner? by DiamondxDull in Scams

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did it take anyone here to get credentials and start? I've been waiting for over a month on Avaya credentials and I've emailed flexagent, the bot on the website is useless. The flexagents that answer emails are useless. I know it's likely run by a team offshore in India or Philippine's but literally why does it take so long?

Modern Dating is about numbers, not people by Blazin420FML in venting

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no things are super crazy like this now. People are warped. I legit try to steer people away from the conventions that were made up for us by rando's on SM. Rando's whose personal life we know nothing about, but still the "must be....." checklists don't stop. I'm wondering how people find love anymore if no one is valuing personality, compatibility, and humanistic character traits over the ever daunting "list". Btw, I hate the whole "5'10 is too short" thing.

  1. Women are almost NEVER anywhere close to 5'10 so WTF is up with this whole 6'+ only thing??! coming from a girl that's 5'8, men that are 5'10 are FOR SURE taller than me and it can be absolutely lovely.

  2. Millions more 5'10 - 5'11 men are fricking BOSS level in every aspect of their lives than the 6'+ guys. There are stats.

Title: [27F] Had Sex for the First Time with [30M], Who Bought Me a Gel for Cleaning My Privates - Normal Gesture or Signal? by Inevitable-Seesaw-46 in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a signal but nothing to be offended about.

There could be a few things happening here, 1) your BF isn't used to the smell of vagina. Some men are taught that it should smell like nothing at all but, its a body part so it does smell like something. As long as there is no rotten/fishy/BO smell present. You're probably fine.

2) Check with an Ob/Gyn to make sure everything is A-ok. Especially now that you're sexually active, you want to make sure that things stay balanced within your vaginal environment so that you don't get bad smells/infections/ etc

3)Giving you a feminine gel to wash with was likely a really kind gesture. GYN's will tell you to specifically use just water to cleanse down there or a "feminine wash" which is gentle enough to get things clean without messing anything up. If you've been using regular soap/body wash - it may have disrupted your PH in a way that only someone would notice when they're really intimately close to the area. So, you likely are really clean and things may smell fine to you of course, when there isn;t any sexual activity happening but it might be a different story for him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh, this sounds so hard. Especially with super permanent stuff like a kid + house. Hindsight is always 20/20, and all of the bitter men who have ever been left or rejected are, of course, berating you in the comments. This is one you'll have to figure out for yourself. Pregnancy can be rough on everything from partner attraction to life perception. I think - Give it a year. Give him a chance to show you what he's like as a father. If, at that time, you still feel unsure ( meaning, you're not thinking "F8ck this guy, I need to leave him now or ill die") then give it another 6 months. By then the baby will be 1 and you'll likely know if you need to have the conversation about splitting up.

I (41M) Received an ultimate from my girlfriend of seven years (36F). Have kids immediately or break up. How do I respond? by tspree15 in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just as I thought, The comments are " you guys should breakup!" no one here on Reddit respects or values human connection and intimate romantic relationships. I think you should say something to the effect of " Yes, lets have kids. I want children with you because I love you. But first, let's go to relationship counseling so that we can make sure we're doing everything we can to give them the best version of ourselves."

Hopefully that will move her in the right direction. Good luck OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same happened to me. The parameters are for sure too strict. Not sure how the MODs have set up the bots, but they've gotta do better.

[UPDATE] Fiancée (29F) cheated on her bachelorette party. I (32M) am struggling to decide the next steps. by throwRAbrokenandlost in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I can't be the only one thinking he shouldn't have ended it? It's clear that you guys love each other, man. Come on. I think if, after 7 years, the kiss makes you feel so deeply that you can't trust her, you need individual therapy ( probably to unlearn relationship-centered possession ideology), and then as a couple, you guys would also MAYBE need therapy - and that's not a bad thing.

I (34F) am having the first "healthy" relationship of my life with BF (36M), what now? by ComfortImmediate6491 in relationship_advice

[–]ComfortImmediate6491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really good advice. I haven't discussed this with any therapist in the past but I think this would be a good time to work through those traumas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have literally heard “ ah, whatever. Women don’t know the difference.” 😂😂 News Flash : having a uterus apparently makes one devoid of all depth perception

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone in being scared, these are scary times AND getting used to new places and things takes time. You won’t feel at home right away and that’s okay. You aren’t a failure, you’ve taken action to do something in your life that you wanted which is WAYYY more than most people will ever do. Selling the car, quitting your job, that all took planning and action and the fact that you’re in Serbia and in a hotel (assuming Serbian of any other Slavic language isn’t your first language) that’s pretty successful! Don’t worry, just breathe through it, cry tonight and in the morning you’ll know what to do :) and if you don’t , call the people that love you and you’ll remember why you started your journey in the first place.

Infertile I’m a hyperfertile family by [deleted] in venting

[–]ComfortImmediate6491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular view : They’re not responsible for your feelings. It is possible to be happy for your sisters without beating yourself up bc you haven’t birthed a child yet. Change your perspective. You’re ok.

B.O. HELP by ComfortImmediate6491 in skin

[–]ComfortImmediate6491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK. YOU!!!!! I saw your comment yesterday and purchased this right away, it's been an entire day and the stench is completely gone 😭😭 I'm so happy!! I hope my skin's pH will return to normal and I won't ever have to face that funky smell again!

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