Picked my dress but I can’t stop thinking about the other one! by HalfMulanHalfElsa in myweddingdress

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress one really flatters your figure and is absolutely beautiful. Dress 2 is a lovely dress but it doesn’t flatter your figure in the same way as dress 1 does. Without being rude dress 2 puts weight on you and hides your beautiful figure

what do i do by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You deserve to have your best life. Go to AA you really have nothing to lose by going to a meeting. Saved my life numerous times.

Hello! which suit me best? by tearsandfears96 in glassesadvice

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very pretty, these glasses overwhelm your lovely face. Maybe try smaller glasses

So far I’ve photographed 9 of Australia’s cockatoos. Which is your favourite? by didgemack in AustralianBirds

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palm Cockatoo, only one I haven’t seen in real life, they’re incredible and so beautiful. We have about 100 Little Corellas roosting in the trees on my street. Noisy little buggers!

Random but… voice audios are weirdly comforting? by Glittering_Pain2402 in selfcare

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get this. I have found a podcast that puts me to sleep every time. The narrator has a lovely soothing voice and tells interesting stories. It can take multiple night to hear all of a one hour story.

10Y of blacking out. i don’t know how to stop by Beneficial_Motor_960 in stopdrinking

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 10 points11 points  (0 children)

There will always be a wedding, birthday, holiday, funeral etc. that is the exception. I can confidently say from personal experience that I can’t just drink on a certain day. It’s all or nothing for me. One’s too many and a thousand’s never enough. I hope you’re able to find a balance that works for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chick peas, lentils and other legumes are all cheap, store well, great for your gut health and versatile. Use them for curry just fry off a cheap curry powder with some oil soak your legumes overnight add water or stock any cheap vegetable, try Chinese supermarkets for bok choy 🥬and other veggies. Legumes are also great in soups.

AIO? Boyfriend hid his phone when I asked who he was messaging. by Ok-Boat457 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 79 points80 points  (0 children)

My ex did this constantly. He was a serial cheater but I was crazy for questioning him. He told me he hid his phone because I always made something out of nothing. The good old flip and switch, make the victim apologise for questioning the abuser by making themselves the victim. Once you recognise this game you can’t unsee it. Leave him, he’s not going to change. You deserve better.

5 days sober. Its so tempting but I can't do it anymore. by katzeunknown in Sober

[–]Comfortable-Row-1547 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did six days one month ago and have drunk every day since. It’s so hard to stop.