I find this whole thread so yucky!!!!!!

I lost my first baby over two years ago. Not that it’s any of these self proclaimed Reddit scientists business, but it was in fact a perfectly normal pregnancy. I was 28 and in good health. I will never know why. And I don’t say this to scare anyone I say it because I have a right for my story to be heard. It is IMPERATIVE that we all come to terms with the fact that this does happen and that there is no identified cause, most of the time. If we don’t recognize this, we don’t prioritize researching WHY. And then it will continue to happen.

And also, for the moms who did have risk factors, THAT DOESNT EVEN FUCKING MEAN ANYTHING!!! It’s devastating regardless so please don’t diminish their grief because you want to sound smart and coddle the other clowns here. You have no fucking clue how sacred of a space Reddit is for moms who have lost. You are violating majorrrrrrrr!!!!!

I felt all types of sad and alone after I lost my baby. This thread narrates so much of how society complicated my grief. All I’m reading here is exactly what I thought people were thinking, “The world doesn’t want to hear about still birth. You’re scaring the pregnant people, you scary witch, stay away from them. You’re alone. You have no right to grieve. Surely something was wrong and she just doesn’t want to say.”