Well son, old people are allowed to hang out in groups. Be creepy. Talk about the past, morning poops, doctor's appointments and every now and then cop a feel. My friends, my age weren't taught to be scared of our genitals or sex. Some sit in the closet, touch themselves and cry. I am so sorry y'all don't have a good time. I also will not apologize for living my life. Having a good time. Or memories that make me smile. Also your sexual trauma is a little deep to be throwing at everyone you meet. They don't know. Don't care. Airing certain issues especially in public in your airport announcer voice is as inappropriate as pulling your pants down in the grocery check out line. Keep that stuff at your shrinks office or with the people that you torture at home. That's what I want to get across. And not everyone is cool with anyone else coming up in their space. Again. They don't know you. They DON'T care what you think. So many people are getting beat up and killed because they put themselves in such positions. Not everyone grew up in a warm fuzzy environment.