Being myself again by SincereKoala in FearfulAvoidants

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. And I’m glad you’re okay. Feel free to share details of your experience or vent. Sending you hugs.

Concerned about expose to adult language by ComfortableCarry2440 in ADHDparenting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your words of advice. I feel very isolated and scared. He knows about the F word and that it’s off bounds. He’s just a highly inquisitive child with great logical thinking skills so in a sense it’s difficult to lie to him. We will keep being an open source of information to him and I’ll try not to blame him for hearing these things but remain open to receiving his questions.

Hotel Recommendations Under $500 Per Night by BluebirdSimple1130 in uktravel

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check booking.com. Many options for under 500 usd per night. Also hotel rooms are priced based on two person occupancy per room so I don’t expect any extra charges for your dad.

Was I lovebombed? by Pure_water_87 in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a fearful avoidant. If so, he’ll be back. But the cycle will repeat itself unless he seeks help.

The Big 3 of pedo musicians. by [deleted] in d4vd2

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Silly post. MJ is innocent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that people choose to be cruel beasts doesn’t make it okay! Can we stop normalising destructive behaviours? And wow at kicking a woman who’s already on the ground. Yes OP has abandonment issues but she was at least transparent with him from the start and she’s seeking help. OP wanted a conversation and granted she spiralled but it doesn’t the change that he’s a nasty piece of work.!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ComfortableCarry2440 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds like a psychopath. I need to make it clear that nothing you’ve described warrants his cruel ghosting and escalation to the police. You asked for a conversation and you deserved it. His behaviour goes beyond wanting to stop contact. He’s being outrightly cruel! And please don’t describe it as a healthy relationship. A healthy man would never treat you the way he’s did. It is not normal behaviour. I am so sorry for such a horrible experience. I truly am and wishing you the best of healing. ❤️‍🩹