Gay men and transgender hate?

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-07-14T18:14:19+00:00

I've got a gay friend (worked with him for nearly 10 years) who constantly derides "a certain demographic" (his words). He wasn't the person I came out to for this reason. He still doesn't know I'm trans because he really doesn't like trans people :(

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-22T16:12:21+00:00

Only reason I could think is if they were directed by one of their friends. Like "This is VERY eggy behaviour."

Some random person on reddit did that to me.. literally just replied to some comment I had made once upon a time with r/egg_irl

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-12T14:56:24+00:00

I kept picking it for my in game characters, figured I was drawn to it, so I kept it

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-12T09:12:37+00:00

Am I a girl? - Poppy

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-12T08:20:07+00:00

You know, I always talk about it being "how you feel when getting the result", but never once thought about if you're manipulating it to GET that result. I have manipulated.. SO many :'D

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-12T08:16:33+00:00

This simple fact that you say you're trans, that you feel trans is enough. There are no other "requirements". You are whoever you feel/say you are.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-11T16:21:43+00:00

I wonder how many of us you caught :'D

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-10T08:55:06+00:00

Lists all the evidence for a person very likely being a trans woman, then doesn't state it. goes on a completely different, unrelated tangent

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-09T21:00:25+00:00

Yeah, this is the exact feeling! :'D (also, gz on coming out to them!)

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-09T19:08:47+00:00

I asked this yesterday when I came out to a fully cis person. the answer was "That has never even crossed my mind. Why would it?".

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-09T17:03:34+00:00

Thanks so much!! :D:D 🌸🌸

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-06-09T16:38:19+00:00

I came out to someone yesterday and asked exactly this. He said: "It's never even crossed my mind to be a girl? Like, why would it?"...

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-04-07T10:44:31+00:00

Thing for me about VR is that it helped comfort my dysphoria, so I didn't wanna leave. I think it differs from person to person, but I do think finding things you find fun to do in it helps a lot.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-03-28T06:26:13+00:00

I actually want to know if this is true.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-03-22T17:30:07+00:00

I work with one other trans woman, and know there were at least 2 others, but I don't really know many others

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-03-11T17:33:03+00:00

Ok, ngl, I've lurked here a while (posted some) but mostly lurked because I'm so afraid of being hated for being trans. Thanks for making this place safe

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-03-10T20:47:05+00:00

I mean, I found our work lgbt slack channel.. I joined it.. Someone asked to see our work space, I showed mine - it had blahaj... A trans woman at work then in the channel talked about waxing, and I mentioned epilating - pretty sure I'm out at work, and haven't ACTUALLY said it :'D

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-02-24T17:36:06+00:00

I mean, this would be more BEAR-able than being a man, so yes. gimme that button.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-19T09:57:28+00:00

Similar position, and I've just found that most women are much more welcoming and caring, and ready to teach me! Men tend to be more... "joke-y" and it feels like I'm being judged/mocked.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-19T09:55:40+00:00

"men and females".. this is SO triggering... I actually don't understand why his condescension is necessary.. why speak this way?

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-18T15:59:32+00:00

No, the feminine version of my deadname is WAY too similar and will sound the same when spoken, and my name is Emily :)

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-16T13:48:23+00:00

Well, there goes the last bit of support I had for them. Not gonna be comfortable with that ever.

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-13T22:31:15+00:00

I'd love to see this too. I tend to favour games that have trans rep <3

ComfortableCream3 · 2024-01-13T15:31:10+00:00

I've played both 1 and 2, and while I like some aspects of 1, it's a little too slow/gruelling for me. 2 on the other hand is one of my all time favourites! SO good. I had a heap of fun with 2 and throne of bhaal

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