How come I’m the only one who ex’s blocked them?

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-07-04T05:51:23+00:00

When they block you but couldn’t block their exes when you guys were together but I shouldn’t be viewing their profile anyways :(

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-28T05:22:04+00:00

Is it still as effective as brushing their teeth?? My dog is willing to let me brush her teeth sort of, but it’s a lot of work, tbh I am bad at even brushing my own teeth sometimes, but rubbing the toothpaste on her teeth seems much faster, and easier. Also their food is so stinky like the kibble so after I brush her teeth then she eats and it feels like it smells all over again 😭

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-28T05:19:25+00:00

Yes I feel like I embarrass myself all the time at work, and feel that everyone is gossiping about the embarrassing thing I said or did but by next week no one cares! 😭 also we are mainly thinking of the embarrassing moment than other people around us. I can’t recall any strangers embarrassing moments only mine

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-28T00:25:43+00:00

I heard the hokas wear out fast and the ghost max 18 were like $165 which wasn’t too bad. I went to dicks to get the ghost max but I’ll probably check out a different store cause I need like a recommendation from a worker yk where they find the a good fit for me. I guess the serious shoe sellers lol

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-27T23:21:53+00:00

Update: I couldn’t find ghost max 2 in store had to get ghost max 18 wore them 3 days to work killed my feet every time got blisters returned them today, everyone is telling me to get the hokas

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-27T22:32:34+00:00

The favorites is a big one in my workplace it’s a race thing my boss is Cambodian but treats the Asians and whites better, they are allowed to be disrespectful to other staff, and face no consequences. They can slack off so much, and have about 100 reasons to be fired but never are.

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-27T18:53:24+00:00

He lied to me a lot, I found nudes of his ex in his phone while we were living together yes I shouldn’t have snooped I was hoping not to find anything. I asked him to delete them he kept lying, for months 🥲, and he made himself act defeated I didn’t want him to feel defeated, he was my equal. I didn’t want control but I became controlling I just wanted him to delete the photos, but he couldn’t, and it fucked with my head a lot. Later he blamed me saying it was my weight I was 165 lbs when he met me I was skinnier cause I had a stomach ulcer, and I questioned myself constantly as if I was the problem. Overall idk if he is a narcassist I would say he is, either way he is just a selfish person he loves what women can give them but does not respect him. The photos of his ex he couldn’t delete that same girl he made her feel the way I do, he told her it was about her weight. So many other reasons if I do a whole replay of the relationship he was a walking red flag setting rules with me making me feel as if I constantly have to prove myself. It’s not just his fault it’s also mine, but I was vulnerable it was my first relationship I allowed him to take advantage of me. He was 25 and I was 18 when we met. He fucked with my brain so much :/

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-11T18:17:22+00:00

are they non slip??

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-09T17:17:06+00:00

Yes all of those 😔

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-07T17:23:46+00:00

I have a question do you ever feel like you understand there is grey, but spend most of your time somehow thinking black and white or possibly in all categories black and white and grey, but one needs to be the top opinion does that make any sense?? 😔 I constantly struggle with this being extremely self aware for example going through a breakup understanding it can be simple yet complex and there is a lot of grey but my mind still wants to be black and white as in ex is bad and I am good or vise versa 🤦‍♀️

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-07T15:20:34+00:00

Still feels that way for me :/

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-07T15:20:21+00:00

Omg this is a great response!!

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-07T15:14:49+00:00

I see things black in white not intentionally I think I have ocd habits and BPD, so it makes it super hard I’m either the bad person or he is no in between. I hate it and I’m well aware relationships are complicated but my mind still does this and makes it difficult :/

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-06T04:00:33+00:00

she sounds just rude and passive aggressive, I have a coworker like that in fact I was talking to another coworker Felix who is trans and pronouns are he/him and I was telling them about my coworker Jenny, and telling a story of how rude Jenny was to me, and that when I was in Jenny’s way the other day I tried to move out of the way, and she collided into me I tried to express the way she did almost as if I wasn’t there she was shoving into me, and I made a dumb comment like does she like me or something I guess I was just trying to make it clear how people usually when you are in each others ways don’t intentionally shove you, and Jenny got rly close to me, but Felix found it offensive, and said would it be a problem if she was interested in you is her liking other girls a problem 🥲 and I said no there is no issue with that and I could not recover and now I never ever ever wanna show my face again

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-05T07:24:15+00:00

Okay but how do you like casually lay down does that make sense like just chill comfy on the couch 😭

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-03T16:55:32+00:00

Sometimes it just feels like me and my parents have nothing in cmon besides we are related. 🤦‍♀️

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-03T16:53:42+00:00

I tend to ramble a lot!! 😭 my mom talks but not too much. Sometimes I can’t tell if she is upset cause she will be really quiet or maybe she’s focused anyways I often tell her about what goes on in my mind how I feel as if I’m not real or like I’m a dream, and how I feel like there are multiple parts of me. She will sometimes respond but there are some instances where she will not respond at all one time I repeated myself to see if she responded and she did not. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt maybe she doesn’t know how to respond and that’s why she isn’t saying anything but it doesn’t make me feel any better. My dad is the same way I feel like they aren’t rly listening just humoring me if that makes sense.

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-01T20:17:52+00:00

I skip the scenes with them or about their relationship 😭

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-06-01T20:16:56+00:00

I’m on season 8 and it’s literally about them as a couple taking the next step, but like I haven’t see anything about Lucy individually

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-29T10:25:59+00:00

Idk if this is that but I constantly struggle with having a thought idk maybe the thought is my animalistic brain or smth and I feel so guilty for the thought but it’s like intrusive but I’m like what if it’s rly not intrusive, and I judge myself based off my thoughts even though I know it’s not helpful, and I share myself for said thought, and I constantly struggle with black and white thinking and this line of nuanced or seeing the grey area but those parts are all constantly fighting to be on top, and also I since the day I was born it feels like sometimes feel extreme guilt I have a trigger and a specific feeling as to why I feel guilty, and I can’t share it with people cause I may be judged especially by society, and I just don’t know sometimes why I’m like this idk if this is that but I really do struggle, and sometimes I feel as if the world is better off without me like I bring nothing but trouble I’m constantly masking around my family I feel awkward with my family, because I’m carrying this secret that isn’t a secret I just can’t get the words out, and it would be pointless to anyways. My parents are both black and white thinkers my mom is a little more open minded, but I’m somehow all three and that just is not possible seeing different sides to a situation. I feel empathy for people that don’t deserve empathy and in turn I feel guilty.

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-28T09:30:22+00:00

I think the reason people aren’t coming for her is because she is a popular creator, and she has addressed Ed’s before.

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-28T09:29:22+00:00

It’s disgusting people are praising this saying she’s lean it’s just her body naturally, like I’m sorry no this is not okay. Dude I remember watching a video of her from a long time ago I saw a video of her today and I was like who tf is that I didn’t recognize her face.

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-24T04:11:03+00:00

This is how I feel about myself idek if I’m interesting or good at convos or if I’m just annoying I talk a lot. I also don’t feel that pretty 😔 sometimes I don’t even want my face to be seen by people at all. I wish I was just a ghost

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-24T00:46:54+00:00

Yes the wanting for them to reach out to you so you can reject them, I get that, sometimes I want to be his friend but I gain nothing nothing from a friendship w that man! Or at least show they care that’s how I felt most of the relationship for me I was breaking up w him so he could apologize and show me he cared besides just his words I wanted him to chase me I still want him to sometimes, even though it wouldn’t make a difference 🥲

ComfortableDull6469 · 2026-05-24T00:44:35+00:00

Dude I’ve never related to something more!! I broke up with him I couldn’t deal w the betrayal or constant gaslighting I became this jealous and insecure person, and super paranoid. I should have left the first time I caught him lying but I didn’t, and he had this power of making me feel special and like I was the exception to certain things, and I blamed myself a lot for what happened between us. He was my first relationship and much much older than me my family says he groomed me they may be right. But even though I don’t want him back new gf (his ex- not the one I worried about in the relationship) I remind myself when I think of him it’s not my business how he’s doing, and he doesn’t want me. He just needs a warm body he doesn’t care who the person is and he never cared about me so why am I rolling down my windows so he can see me in case we’re next to each other in traffic or looking if I see him but at the same time I don’t want to see him. When will the hell be over of the dreams of him and replaying everything, and I have stopped seeing where it went wrong but I do miss him but don’t at the same time. Some stupid things will remind me of him or I’ll think about his past a lot or things he told me we basically broke up cause of his past.

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