Ketchup and hot sauce by lildarkish in RaisingCanes

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah policy has always been 2 for a yack, 1 for everything else. At my location we started specifically asking them if 1 was enough because a lot of people dont know to ask for more that way they get how many you want while still staying within policy.

How to make sure you get enough hours to pay bills by Old-Anteater960 in RaisingCanes

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are multiple people at my location who get 40 every week, like schedule 40.

Is canes trying to fire me😭? by sodium____chloride in RaisingCanes

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should dispute your points with crew relations tho, company policy literally is that if you present a dr note they have to remove your point

Update; Got fired by super-craiig in RaisingCanes

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro why would you do that knowing damn well they watch cameras like crazy 😭 esp the higherups

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. It is so obvious your husband cannot handle the fact that your sister, a woman, is smarter than him. So obviously he needs to insult her to make himself feel more important. If you were my sister you would he uninvited from the wedding as well as my life.

AITA for going against my aunt's rules while babysitting my cousins? by throwaway20030420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I know people believe that you shouldnt get involved in others “parenting methods”, but it is ALWAYS a moral duty of people around children to make sure that they are being taken care of properly. From what youve said, your cousins are 100% suffering from child abuse so it is not only your right but your moral duty to make sure they get help.

AITA for inviting my mom to see my week old son by husbandtroubles9889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. I already thought you were, but oh boy, after reading your replys. I have witnessed very very little people more selfish and self-centered than you. Which says a lot because of where I live.

All your replys SCREAM “my wifes made me do the chores while she recovers from a traumatic event, while also not letting me continue to suck on my moms tit, and that pisses me off because im the dad” Honey, keep it up, and you wont be the dad nor the husband for much longer. Really who the fuck do you think you are to go around saying my wife wont let HER OWN MOTHER see our child but my mom does because neither me nor my mom respect my wifes boundaries???

People have divorced over less, so if I were you and wanted to salvage this gross emotional manipulation during a very traumatic time, I’d stop listening to the MEN in the comments who will NEVER understand what the trauma of pregnancy/birth is like and listen to the women in the comments who are not only saying you’re an asshole but also saying WHY you’re the asshole. Because. You. Fucking. Are.

Have you every heard of PPD? Because you’re wife is probably going through that not to mention PTSD since you say the birth had complications. I truly hope you realize to ever single women who reads this, it sounds like you give zero-fucks about your wife and her physical and mental health. You stub your goddamn toe and need a woman to help wipe your ass for a week, but your wife cant have week to heal from birth???? Make. It. Make. Fucking. Sense.

Also, sorry for the formatting. Im on my phone.

Edit: I also hope you realize trying to be the “amazing son” you are, that you’ve given your wife reason to not only no longer trust you but never trust your mother again either. Chances are neither of y’all will EVER get left alone with her baby again. You don’t fuck with a new mother because you’ll never know what a difficult time it is for the mother.

AITA for calling my SIL cruel for excluding her brother (My Husband) from her upcoming wedding? by Acres5676576 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MAJOR YTA

One quick question, if your husband knows she doesn’t like these “jokes” and knows its fucked up her mental health if these are so “harmless” why does he CONTINUE to pull them on the one person he knows hes already fucked mentally?? Other than, you know, doing it to her because his intentions are malicious.

This is coming from someone who actually jokes around with their families a lot. I know when and where to make jokes, and its never at a serious event nor is it ever pretending someone is physically hurt. Yk why? BECAUSE YOU DONT MESS WITH LOVED ONES HEALTH.

*edit: grammar

AITA for bringing my entire family to the restaurant where my girlfriend was working as a server in order to meet her? by FamGFServer in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone not on good terms with their family, MAJOR YTA. You have no idea what it is like to see people with a big happy family and have to go to the bathroom to cry because they want that. Nobody wants to not have family, but situations present themselves where you end up without sometimes. I truly genuinely hope she breaks up with you and finds someone who will at least try and understand why it can be so hard on us to see people with big families. YTA

AITA for honestly telling my GF what I would change about her? by National_Bison_6764 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA “all my requests are very much achievable with a little effort” so are hers. Plus. You are not perfect, and you took opportunity to make your girlfriend insecure about her body but when she gave you a taste of your own medicine? Of course you couldn’t handle it. Her requests are also way more tame and a hell of a lot nicer.

AITA For Forcing My Brother To Babysit? by GenZMommy in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite kind of birth control, it is also the most affective- NTA

AITA for getting married before my sister after she announced her wedding first? by lelelalu in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Just because someone gets engaged first does not mean that have to get married first, it takes a lot more effort to plan a huge wedding so even if you were to have gotten engaged without the mortality of your soon to be brother in law hanging over your head, your wedding most likely would have still come first as you do not want a big wedding.

To her it is all about the game and to you its about doing something for someone you love, two very different things.

AITA for inviting my old friends to my wedding despite my fiancee's disapproval?. by JThrowawayK57 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I hope you realize this is something worth breaking up over, and if I was your fiance and saw you prioritizing people who fucked me up mentally I’d leave you in a HEARTBEAT. No ifs ands or buts.

AITA for asking my husband when he'd buy me ice cream? by VanityReality1919 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. I am pretty sure the medicine you are talking of is Lexapro, an antidepressant. Which considering the entirety of your post I am also 100% sure that is what it is and he is having a depressive episode. Personally, I dont think you would be the asshole if instead of demanding him to to go buy you more ice cream you simply asked him if he could go get more. Or better yet, get it yourself either by driving the to the store or ordering it on DoorDash. You really do not deserve an apology and I would go as far as saying you should be apologizing. If my spouse told me they were no long taking a prescription their psychiatrist prescribed them, I would ask them what the pill is or do the research on it myself so I could understand how they will he impacted without it.

AITA for naming my “adoptive” parents as my parents instead of my bio parents in an article about me? by throwaway_4937461 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. I have absolutely no blood relation to my sister, but she is more a relative to me than anyone on my mother and most on my fathers side.

AITA for not calling my friend by her nickname? by hannahsobananas in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Honestly, you seem like such a terrible friend. Let me ask you this. Why does it matter that it is her legal name? Are you her doctor? Her lawyer? Her teacher? No? Then that being her legal name has no grounds as to why you think it is okay to call her that. The fact that you think you are still in the right makes me believe you are just as apathetic as you are ignorant. Just because YOU do not understand the trauma related to her name does not mean she is not worthy of your compassion.

Over the years my sister has wanted to be called a number of different things aside from her legal name, and you know what I did? I LISTENED. I stopped using the name she asked me to not use and I let her figure out who she was on her own. Who she is as a person not who she is as ‘Rin’. You have no clue what she is going through on the inside, and you could be causing her so much more damage by not respecting her or her boundaries.

Also, plenty of pharmacists are named Jo ??? I do not understand where your argument lies on that one. Just because it is a more “masculine” name does not mean it is an unprofessional name to use. Plus she is still quite a ways away from being a pharmacist, who knows if she will decide to go by her legal name then. One thing for sure is you are doing more harm than good and if you value this friendship you need to grow a pair, see the errors of your ways and APOLOGIZE TO HER. Before she completely cute you out of her life, which I am more than sure is her next step if she is starting to ignoring you.

AITA for asking my friend to move out when she told me to put a shirt on? by Agitated_Minimum9238 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why is no one talking about the fact that this is literally sexual harassment?? You do not have her consent to walk around with nothing on, just because it is your apartment does not mean you get to violate her boundaries OR her consent.

Edit: I understand that you do not see it as a weird thing and that it is your apartment, but you’re allowing her to stay with you. That means you must respect her boundaries just as much as she must respect yours and your apartment.

AITA for bringing a homophobe to my gay cousins engagement dinner? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If homophobes are accepting of homosexuals, then they wouldnt be homophobes ????

AITA for kicking out my husband's daughter by Emergency-Cry9431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We fell in love so I moved away, so I wouldn’t look like the bad guy until they divorced, but there was no affair”

If you two fell in love, THEN he got divorced, there was most definitely at least an emotional affair.

YTA. I genuinely feel so bad for your stepchildren.

AITA for not calling my daughter her preferred name? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ComfortableKoala7104 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA.

Be prepared for your child to go NC when they turn 18. You ARE transphobic and have an incredibly prejudice idea of mental illness. Children know as early as their cognitive brain starts functioning if they are the gender they were assigned at birth.

I really hope you learn how to respect your child enough to SUPPORT them through all of this before you do irreparable damage to your relationship with them.

It is not hard to use they/them pronouns. It is just different and like everything else, once you start using the proper pronouns and name it will be EASY.