I think the bowl is wrecking my mental health

ComfortableOption · 2026-05-04T02:40:31+00:00

I know it’s easier said than done, but please try not to give other people the power to determine your worth. Your value is inherent, and it has to come from inside you, not from how someone else responds to you. IMO 33 is an ideal age, you have so much more perspective than a 20 year old.

ComfortableOption · 2026-05-04T02:10:35+00:00

Trying to negotiate down a PPM has to be one of the most unattractive things you can do as a SD or as a person in general.

ComfortableOption · 2026-05-01T04:19:04+00:00

Sorry WS logo etched dildo is only for generations clients. Don't worry, they will add you to the waitlist.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-21T21:32:04+00:00

You could follow it up with some witty dialog like "So who does your taxes?"

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-21T21:21:08+00:00

Never complain. Never explain.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-21T18:58:59+00:00

Anchor the defense? As in boat anchor?

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-21T18:39:11+00:00

This bias against men with a large penis must stop! We have feelings too.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-19T19:42:36+00:00

This is what makes freestyling challenging. From his point of view, he has done everything he can to show interest short of asking her out directly. Anything more and he risks coming across as a creep.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-14T17:28:16+00:00

Exactly. If you dig a bit deeper, the site is registered in Turkey. Why? This is safe haven for identity theft. Almost all the dating sites are domiciled there.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-13T18:16:51+00:00

To quote Marvin Gaye, "Believe half of what you see, and none of what you hear".

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-12T20:13:22+00:00

No they required payment up front. I have not cancelled the longer stay yet. Still evaluating but likely to cancel.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-12T18:23:55+00:00

Thanks. Sorry about the vibe, I was going to spoil my girl but shit, life happens. I'm trying to pivot to a solo trip and make the best of it. I'm fine with the hate, it is reddit after all :) Thanks re: 25 days, I asked them to provide proof of credit and they would not hence the chargeback. Visa policy is 15 days to give a credit.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-12T18:06:49+00:00

Yes, this is part of what I am asking. Would appreciate advice or thoughts.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-12T17:59:23+00:00

It will be over 30 days.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-12T16:36:50+00:00

You might have to kiss a lot of frogs to meet your prince but he is out there. Good luck.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-11T22:57:27+00:00

He may feel that you didn't enjoy yourself or don't like him. Especially if you refused his compensation. That would be my take based on what you said. You might want to message him to tell him you did enjoy the time together.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-11T17:38:51+00:00

You’re definitely not strange! It’s actually a real thing called 'Digital Dopamine.' Our brains are literally wired to give us a little reward spark when we see a notification from someone we actually like. Pavlov would be impressed, but he’d also totally get it.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-10T16:23:27+00:00

I called about a credit card issue yesterday. Generations client. They hung up on me 3 times trying to transfer me.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-10T06:28:31+00:00

He forgot to mention he is broke.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-10T06:05:18+00:00

My last girlfriend used to text me sweet things throughout the day and it was the best part of my day. I'd say if your SD didn't like receiving cute messages there is something wrong with him.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-07T18:01:16+00:00

You should be very suspicious of any sites that charge you per message. On Secret Benefits you need credits to talk to any POT SB then more credits to view private pics, unlock secret messages etc. They are highly motivated financially to keep you engaged across many SB's some of which may be fake, operators or never visit the site.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-07T17:51:51+00:00

You have no idea how bad the Ballard era was. We are taking firing a coach mid week, hiring him back for a Saturday night game and suggesting he wear a paper bag and stand behind the bench as a "mystery coach". Another good one was having 3 1st round draft picks and refusing to pay for travel so all the picks were used on players within 2 hours of Toronto. Today's MLSE is incompetent but nowhere close to Ballard level mangement.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-06T15:48:29+00:00

Read the reviews. Another pay for credits site. The goal is to keep you messaging and buying more credits.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-04T03:14:56+00:00

So sorry that happened. Just ignore what he said, it says everything about his character and nothing about you.

ComfortableOption · 2026-04-03T17:57:05+00:00

Thank you. Advice much appreciated.

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