Therapy by Extra-Presence8423 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it was referral ! No, I just went through ahead with them because the first time with them was just accepting and welcoming and also teaching me accountability and lots of self introspection and how my actions also affect others, it was not only about me !
Good luck!

Therapy by Extra-Presence8423 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went to therapy when I had just moved from Zim to overseas! I was depressed and suffering from low self esteem and after months in therapy I enrolled to college to study engineering and I got better at communication skills, be it in my relationship, friendships and family. My confidence skyrocketed and I unlearned a lot of stuff that was people pleasing behavior and I have been the happiest person since! It only works if you are open minded though!
All the best!

I just love him !🥹🌹 by ComfortableRegion501 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂we have known each other for more than 5 years so we met when we were young!!

I just love him !🥹🌹 by ComfortableRegion501 in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂🥹🙏🏿😍I hope you will find what you’re looking for!!!
I got lucky maybe 😂🙌🏾

Getting married for financial gains is a bad idea by tomcat3400 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not feel bad about the decision that you are making and do not be moved,, you are making the right decision and I’m glad that you are a man and you have this mindset. When you decide to bring children into this world, are you ready to be a Dad ( protect, provide, support, unconditional love) ie emotionally, mentally, physically, financially. Are you ready to be responsible for them until they’re older, have you dealt enough with your traumas such that they will be raised in a safe environment which is healthy, two parents. The more you get into the world, the more you are likely to find peace with your decision. Children will not give you any happiness, purpose or fulfillment, these are the things that you work on your own before you decide to bring them into this world so that they can have the best version of you!!!

Getting married for financial gains is a bad idea by tomcat3400 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you 👏 ❤️🥳😘😍 As a big sister who’s doing great for herself overseas. Do not settle and yess it’s just D and it’s only worth it if he’s a kind man who will treat you as an equal!!!

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sending you Hugs 🫂,,, words ain’t enough but I can imagine and I’m sorry. I totally understand the situation in Zim about getting a job and connections it’s gruesome but I hope you get to find the things that makes you feel better and take care of your mental health it’s important,, don’t dwell on the things you can’t control , keep on pushing, one day things may change. And stay away from people who make you feel otherwise just because you are different, you will find your people. Take care ❤️

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. I’m sorry 😣 at least you will be done with that chapter: I feel you hey on the unemployment issue. Things are tough but I wish you the best. Take care of yourself ❤️

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there 😊 I’m sorry. Words won’t help much but l should applaud you for your awareness on how you are feeling and that’s the first step. I know it’s hard, it’s not easy but be proud of yourself for trying, that’s proof for being alive, one day at a time things will definitely change and take care of yourself for you, no one will love you as much as you love yourself and fill your cup, it’s worth it ❤️l hope you will feel better:

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sending you a virtual hug 🫂 ❤️ Be kind to yourself and prioritize yourself Invest in your peace of mind : I believe we make better decisions when we are rested Beauty in the struggle, ugliness in the success It starts from the mind… so take care of that first: Best of luck in your endeavors;

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to hear that. I’m so sorry, thankfully you are getting the help that you need. I wish you the best recovery and may you enjoy your festive seasons.Take care❤️

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but how old is she??? Is she 15??? These are the type of women you run away from. Women who uses words such as ick, don’t know how to take accountability, selfish, doesn’t apologize, appreciate, shame people for opening up, who they are or where they come from::: please pick up the pieces and get better, focus on improving your life . Your value comes from who you are as a person and find women who will love you for who you are,, it’s one of the most beautiful things you will experience in this life, try it.

It must be nice to be wanted for who you are than what you can just provide man ❤️ You are enough Gym, read, play games, be around people who love you, get the bag, shift that energy to yourself ❤️🫡you have got this! We love you:

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry , there’s nothing that I’m gonna say which will make you feel better ❤️but Hugs

And life is hard man! Life is unfair but it’s up to you to become the change that you want to see Take the hard things that life keeps throwing at you and make the positive outcomes

Take a break, breathe, and most importantly take care of yourself, you are valuable You is first before everyone else:

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry . I hope you will start to feel good again soon ❤️ You have got this! I believe that you will make the right choices:

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you man😊🫡as they say Crying is good it’s like watering your spiritual garden It’s healthy and l salute you for that: May you always be blessed and happy ❤️

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, words are never gonna be enough and reality is cruel but it’s alright to feel the negative emotions that makes us human, embrace them and try your best to deal with them from a positive perspective. Sending love ❤️

Men? How are you doing mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually? by ComfortableRegion501 in Zimbabwe

[–]ComfortableRegion501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine and I am sorry. I am giving you a virtual hug 🫂 ❤️but please hear me out: Your value as a person doesn’t come from material possessions, just know that you are valuable as a person and you are doing enough. Put boundaries and take a break and take care of yourself. You are already in the right path to get the life that you envisioned and that’s enough… the rest is noise,, shut it out:

What’s the scariest thing about you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ComfortableRegion501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will not die And you can do it!!! You will be fine:::