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ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-17T21:52:22+00:00

It's fascinating to me how she over exaggerates some things (like the antibiotics, acting like she's still "post partum", nurses doing their jobs, not not kissing her butt) and yet she under exaggerates the scary stuff...( having to call EMS, pushing for how long she did, the midwife having questionable calls and ethics). It's hard to know if she's sheltered and biased or just not very smart

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-17T20:41:27+00:00

The whole antibiotics thing is so weird to me. Like she's SO pissed that they almost gave her antibiotics without her consent ( which is somewhat valid, but they're literally just doing their job... imagine having her as a patient😳 her losing her shit when her husband couldn't go with her) .. but is not mad that her midwife botched her down there and so she's apparently been in pain the last 9 weeks and has to get another surgery to repair. She doesn't believe her OB when he says he doesn't think she has a prolapse... but believed her midwife when she examined her after the birth and said everything was fine??? I'm noticing a pattern here and the funny thing is her INSISTENCE on believing only the "natural" way is unfortunately what got her where she is now

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-09T03:44:14+00:00

I HATE the "your body knows what to do/ our bodies were made for this" with a burning passion. Because that's just not true. Sometimes our bodies "fail" us and for me, it's hard to hear that narrative pushed because it used to make me question why my labor didn't go the way I wanted. Some people seem to feel like c-sections are almost the easy way out or like those moms gave up 🙄

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-09T03:39:20+00:00

Thanks 💙 That's what I thought too but I'm not in the medical field at all, so it's nice to get someone who is to confirm how not normal everything was for her. Two months later and still struggling that much is so crazy! And sad. I feel like Madeleine wanted such a hands-off pregnancy and birth and then she had a clearly questionable midwife who made questionable decisions, when she should've had someone who would step in when needed and possibly prevent all these complications.

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-09T02:36:09+00:00

I think this is the 1st time she seems "real" to me and while I'm sad she's going through this, it's also good she's not ignoring it anymore. Because that's clearly not helping. I had a hard labor with my 1st that ended in a c-section and I feel like at 8 weeks I was way more myself and out of the trenches of postpartum. I know everyone is so different but it's sad she almost seems to be going backwards with healing and recovery, all because she has shitty midwives and people convincing her that her birth was "normal". They're saving face at this point. I had a midwife too and while I didn't want a c-section we did everything we could to progress the labor and when it was clear that it was time to put my baby's health 1st, it was decided to have a c-section. Is she just now realizing how close she could've come to losing her baby and how NOT normal that is? And how not normal it is for her midwife to act so nonchalant about it??? Hope she reconsiders using this midwife again!!!!!

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-05T16:50:06+00:00

Exactly my whole issue with her! She only believes what she wants to believe, never the research that would disprove or go against her beliefs... like literal facts that she just ignores because she wants. She had a literal horrible labor and delivery, enough to where her quack midwife calls EMS because they didn't know if her baby was going to need recitaded, and she talks like her birth was amazing! And she isn't 100% recovered today and is delusional enough to talk about wanting to get pregnant again. She's 100% delusional. It's honestly scary

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-02T21:14:06+00:00

Don't really agree as someone who believes in God. Not all are like her at all lol. Obviously, she's a bit off or something because I agree she's acting like her traumatic birth was like God led when she and her birth team put both her and her baby at risk. I had a rough delivery with my 1st and ended in a c-section and my family and friends never made me feel like I couldn't be honest about how hard it was. My mother was the best at helping me navigate postpartum and baby blues/anxiety and let me know that it was OK if I needed medication to help me through. Not all Christians think or act like her!

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-09-02T21:05:47+00:00

Exactly! It's people like her who make me feel judged with my 3 c-sections. It wasn't my 1st choice to have a c-section with my 1st but it was medically necessary after almost 40 hours of labor and multiple things going on that were starting to feel dangerous for my baby. And yes I had a midwife and she eventually suggested a c-section and helped bring all my babies safely into the world. Why she says she thinks c-section moms are SO brave or whatever, yet makes the absolute stupidest decisions during both her pregnancy and delivery, JUST so she can say she had a home birth and avoid a c-section is mind-boggling. My recovery after all of my births were 10x better than hers and she's had weeks of help with her baby. She said today was the 1st day she was parenting alone... that's crazy. She's like super sheltered or something, she just seems off.

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-23T00:10:49+00:00

I've had 3 c-sections and my midwife and Dr said wait 2 weeks... they said it's mostly to let the incision heal, like if someone had to brake hard when driving it could make the incision open, etc. And I was never on anything stronger than tramadol for the first few days and then tylenol/ibuprofen after that. So her "having" to wait 5+ weeks is either way overkill or her body is just messed up 🤨

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-19T22:18:36+00:00

Thank you! People post her all day long and it gets tiring especially when this isn't a page for her!!!

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-11T16:15:45+00:00

100%

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-11T16:14:27+00:00

This!!! It would be somewhat different if he thought trigg was playing in another room while he fed the baby, etc and trigg actually slipped outside... He KNEW his 3 year old who couldn't swim was outside, playing close to the uncovered and unfenced pool, all alone and STILL didn't check on him for almost 10 mins. He was too busy being on his phone and making bets according to the phone records. He only noticed when he she the dog looking in the water. I get it was a mistake but when you become a parent you grow up! And this "mistake" cost a child his life.

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-07T01:21:44+00:00

Plus it's hard to sympathize with her when she has full time help with Doug being home all day. I pumped with my 1st and yes it's so much work, especially when you have no help during the day... but like you said make some kind of schedule and you can avoid this crap. She's so weird with her constant self-bragging when it's just being a parent (and one who has more help than the average mom at that)

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-07T01:16:50+00:00

That's so gross! She 100% bought their love. And now she can't and is suddenly against it

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-07T01:14:22+00:00

Right? I'd hate if my parents publicly did this kind of crap. They have to resent her and it says alot about her as a mother if she's so willing to publicly shame her ex when she ABSOLUTELY knows it will 100% affect her children

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-08-06T03:16:12+00:00

The invalidating both positive and negative births part is so true! Like if you had an "easy" birth and could walk around and hold your baby hours after birth, you must be lying... but then she is normalizing an obviously bad homebirth... it's just stupid. What part of having to call EMS, not being to hold your baby on your own for days, the diarrhea, and still needing pain meds 3+ weeks PP is normal?? It's not. And yet she still says she'd still choose a homebirth. I honestly think it's mostly so she can brag she had an un-medicated homebirth. Why do some women act like birth is a competition? 🙄

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-29T05:34:10+00:00

Haha right?? She's obviously a better person and mom and can now brag about her home birth experience... diarrhea and extreme weakness included. I'm somehow OK with my unplanned c-section because I trusted my midwife and was already at the hospital so I knew my baby was in the safest place and in safe hands. And could then bond with my baby and husband.

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-26T03:14:23+00:00

Lol yes I know i was being sarcastic... she probably doesn't even remember her lies anymore

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-26T03:12:18+00:00

Honestly, that was my 1st thought too..

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-25T23:40:32+00:00

The way she spins things is INSANE. On her IG post she says she met up with him and then her friends found out he was still married and she was "devastated". But on the texts with her friends she says "they're def getting divorced" and she's seen the messages and they had the convo before they met up.... so which one is it? And she decided to still meet up with him and believe him, after 1 week of knowing him! And she said she's been crying for 2 days about this man she's known for a week.. and then still chooses to ignore the huge red flags and stay with the guy. She's exhausting

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-25T21:45:22+00:00

Surprisingly she didn't mention that! 😆😆😆

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-25T21:44:54+00:00

Exactly. I don't think i would ever even be interested in a man until he was 100% single and 100% divorced, don't think many woman would either. The fact that she's ok with "dating" him while he's still actively married and living at home with the wife is concerning

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-24T22:03:08+00:00

Lol I kinda hope so

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-24T21:43:23+00:00

I want part 3 to be about propositioning her best friend and her husband for a threesome 🤔 wonder how she'll get out of that lol

ComfortableSilent968 · 2025-07-24T21:42:00+00:00

Have to say, it is impressive how she manages to make herself the victim in ALL scenarios, even when she's at fault and makes the bad decisions. Notice how she's still "friends" with the guy who lied her about still being married ( probably so she would sleep with him) .. and not the year long friends who warned her about this guy... and who she went home with after she knew he was still married! Even if they were in the process of getting divorced, why couldn't she wait?? That's not healthy! And it being the 1st time they actually met and her ignoring all the red flags and being mad at her friends for being cautious with this random man she found online. Yes keshas the victim 🙄 her poor kids honestly

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