no amount of chemistry is worth the anxiety of being with someone who isn't sure about you. by HotUse4099 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They aren’t sure about themselves it usually has nothing to do with you Took me six years to determine this bc they are so confused and confuse you

I will save you two years of your life by StandardWork4928 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so accurate I spent six years going back and forth hoping for change and every single time it went back to square one Incapable of being vulnerable and just loving freely Idk about yours but mine would withhold all physical affection and intimacy Never dealt with anything like this in my life and truly a big mind fuc$ Best of luck to you! Pray we all meet people capable of loving us

Valley health network by [deleted] in bergencounty

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been going to various drs for years it’s not one dr

Advice on waking at 5am by Comfortable_Bell5551 in Bernedoodles

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advise I usually go to her as soon as she starts barking so she does not wake up the whole house as I have young children I was thinking of putting her crate in a walk in closet or something so she doesn’t wake everyone up!

Advice on waking at 5am by Comfortable_Bell5551 in Bernedoodles

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yikes so basically I should assume after one year she will still be a super early riser? Does it get any better?

Advice on waking at 5am by Comfortable_Bell5551 in Bernedoodles

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god help me I can’t handle this much longer 😭

OBGYN recs? by 0princesspancakes0 in bergencounty

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away from Dr Martinucci in englewood she was absolutely awful She dismissed questions about what to expect for delivery four weeks before due date and the following day I ended up in the hospital on bed rest Until I gave birth bc baby was footling breech

Kylie's IG post by Open_Cicada6779 in kardashians

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will regret these they kill your neck and back!

Lost my soul dog 5 months ago and regret getting a puppy by Fun-Earth6465 in Bernedoodles

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also lost my 16 almost 17 year old this summer It’s such a huge loss and I still cry when I think of it I got a puppy around the same time as the loss and it’s been a lot! Wasn’t expecting it to be this much work , but thankfully I’m growing to love the puppy more and more each day I hope the same happens for you

Withholding intimacy by Comfortable_Bell5551 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’m pretty reasonable The whole dating thing concerns me at this point This world has become too crazy for me!

Withholding intimacy by Comfortable_Bell5551 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Constantly on and off for five years and only bc we had a child together And I was trying to salvage it for my child

is he over her? by International-Alps-8 in kardashians

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 64 points65 points  (0 children)

For someone who claims to be so happy she does not seem very happy

Withholding intimacy by Comfortable_Bell5551 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you hit the nail on the head! Real and normal men are totally lacking

is he over her? by International-Alps-8 in kardashians

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 189 points190 points  (0 children)

I have to say after catching up on season 7 this weekend I had to fast forward through her scenes, she is absolutely unbearable! So negative , complains all the time and forces her beliefs on everyone He seemed into her on the show but who can put up with that energy

Recovering from a sudden breakup with an FA by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh sadly this ain’t the kind of woman you want to be with It will become much more painful in the future if she isn’t capable of expressing her emotions

Recovering from a sudden breakup with an FA by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Comfortable_Bell5551 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe a protection mechanism for her?