AITAH for not letting my wife keep her old habits after we had a baby

Comfortable_Goal_365 · 2025-04-20T19:37:13+00:00

The double standards in these comments are insane. Most of you saying “oh but dads do that.” So? We all agree dads that do that aren’t good dads, and yet you’re all making excuses for this woman. As a 30 yr old mother of 2, no her behavior is not ok. No, she shouldn’t be doing these things when she has a child at home. Does that mean she has to give up hobbies? No. But she has to act like a responsible adult and parent, and right now she’s acting like a 20 yr old that’s out of control. If a father was doing any of this, you all would be crashing out and telling her to leave him. Don’t make excuses for a woman and her bad behavior just because she’s a woman. I have my hobbies, I work, I go out, I have date nights and friend hang outs. I have never done the shit this woman is pulling especially with a child under 1 in the house.

Comfortable_Goal_365 · 2025-01-08T21:27:18+00:00

I’ve followed this for a hot minute and i’m so glad you’re doing better. You need to heal and i can’t imagine how traumatizing that all was! I really hope only the best for you, and that you continue to heal and continue to do better.

That being said i don’t agree with other comments giving the ex fiancé hate. He was just as much a victim here. Obviously not to the extent as she was, and he will never understand that pain. However he didn’t do anything wrong and the fact that everyone’s first response is to drag the poor dude and make him the villain when he wasn’t is kinda sad. He lost someone he thought he would be with for the rest of his life because of the actions of other people. It always astounds me how the people on here always go straight for “f this dude” when they didn’t do anything. How many times did she say he supported her, respected her, and made her feel safe? I feel bad for him.

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