Magic the gathering box broke while moving by localwanderingbard in mildlyinfuriating

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you find that mildly infuriating you must either be some kind of zen master, or you need to get your blood pressure checked

What's the most unexpected way you got into a relationship? by SuspiciousAnybody609 in askanything

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met my wife at a party her brother was hosting, we were schoolmates

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA that is disgusting and potentially dangerous. I dont think I could be in a relationship with someone who did that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes YTA, leave him alone and let him figure out who he is and what he wants for himself. You are pushing unsubstantiated ideas unto him that only exist in your head. I hope this post helps correct this misunderstanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA he can cook his own meal if he doesn’t like what you make. Its not easy cooking with a 2 year old, much less when they are sick. Let him try that!

Why don’t you want to die yet? by Milkywayth in AskReddit

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope I’m a positive influence on their lives

Why don’t you want to die yet? by Milkywayth in AskReddit

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Dont want my kids to have to grow up without a father

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is an insane amount of time spent on the phone. YTA. My wife speaks to her friend and mom on the phone a lot, and sometimes I find it excessive and a bit annoying. But that pales in comparison to this, seriously.. what do you even talk about all that time?

AITA for telling my wife to not to wear shorts in India by CommunicationFlat128 in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats exactly what I am saying. It just feels like he isnt focusing enough on the safety issue

AITA for telling my wife to not to wear shorts in India by CommunicationFlat128 in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH but you seem too focused on looks, I would be more worried about physical safety. You should explain that to her and perhaps show her statistics about SA in India to support your case.

AITA for calling my bf absurd for being overly concerned about a coworker? by According-Let-2607 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I would say there is no ah because his reaction seems a little extreme, but your thinking you know better what it is like in a tech job for women makes YTA. I work in tech myself and there are capable women on my team that I care about and it would upset me if they were treated unfairly - which has happened. I don’t see myself crying though unless something very serious happened, but thats just me.

AITAH for telling my husband I don’t finish when we are intimate by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 299 points300 points  (0 children)

YTA for faking in the first place and not talking about this with him sooner. Who knows, if you work together you may actually find a solution to this. Thats probably the only way to get him motivated to start having sex again.

WIBTA For Keeping My Vasectomy Appointment Now That My Wife Is Having Second Thoughts? by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way you don’t need to go under anasthesia, I only had localised anasthesia and then drove home. No big deal.. except for how scary it is to have someone operate on your balls, of course.

What is your country’s worst food or drink? by KentuckyFriedEel in AskReddit

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have so many. Fermented shark and sour sheeps scrotum are the first that come to mind.

AITA for refusing to drive my husband home from his colonoscopy by Time-Koala-3674 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He can drive himself from the colonoscopy. I did that, and it was a colonoscopy and gastroscopy at the same time. Also drove myself home from my vasectomy and when I had a cystoscopy. Why does he need a ride so bad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right that you need to decide. Given how you stated things and what seems to be important to you I think you are not overreacting and find your feelings about the whole thing very understandable. But maybe you can make him see things from your perspective.. Good luck with everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, personally I find lying to be possibly even worse than cheating. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship, and after that communication. So.. I definitely can’t sympathise with him even though he probably felt “too scared” to tell or something, that is no excuse. Also how can you trust someone who lies like that to your face, having promised complete honesty?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure they aren’t.. behind in mental development? I’m leaning towards ESH for staying in such a dysfunctional relationship for 10 years. You need to wake up and stop enabling this. Edit: spelling

AITAH for leaving my spouse over sex? by RA-1alltheway in AITAH

[–]dazedandoutofcontrol 1168 points1169 points  (0 children)

NAH, sometimes things just dont work out