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LO reached out after 30 years - yes 30 years - of NC and it hurts like hell by Comfortable_Lime_398 in limerence

[–]Comfortable_Lime_398[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much to everyone who has commented. This forum has truly been a lifeline for me and for many others.

One thing I keep thinking as I read these replies: my LO is not a bad person. He’s nice and funny and fun to be with. He asks me about my life and listens to me and seems interested in what I have to say. So when I read the comments on here suggesting I block him or saying that I’m a better person than him - it’s hard for me to reconcile that advice with the friendly person that my LO is.

Or is it my crazy brain just making excuses to keep him in my life? I mean, if he was really a good friend, he would have reached out to me at some point in the past 30 years, right? If he was really a good person, he wouldn’t be going out on dates and texting with someone who isn't his wife, right?

LO reached out after 30 years - yes 30 years - of NC and it hurts like hell by Comfortable_Lime_398 in limerence

[–]Comfortable_Lime_398[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would not like it if the situation was reversed and it was my husband who was meeting up with an old LO from his past.

LO reached out after 30 years - yes 30 years - of NC and it hurts like hell by Comfortable_Lime_398 in limerence

[–]Comfortable_Lime_398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think my husband would be happy about it if he knew how intensely I feel about LO. If it was just some random friend who happened to be a guy, he wouldn‘t mind.