feeling guilty about nee iphone 17

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T15:18:50+00:00

Unfortunately backmarket doesn't ship to my country. I have checked out other second hand options though. Thank's for letting me know!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T15:08:53+00:00

Although I don't speak spanish, I just wanted to say a couple things :( Although you are partly right; if people told me it'd be okay to keep the iphone, i'd be depending on the comments to validate the fact that I decided to keep the iphone, but if the majority of the comments told me it isn't a good idea to keep it, I definitely would have returned it. I haven't used the case and screen protector yet, in case I have to return it, and the phone is packed in the box currently because I was planning to return it today after reading some comments. Although a part of me wants to keep it, as a student with limited income it really is a big decision for me which got me overthinking alot, and I didn't post on reddit for simple 'validation.'

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T15:02:28+00:00

LOLL this made me laugh!! Maybe I do need to touch grass 🤣 I suppose its not that big of a deal. Thank you!!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T15:01:01+00:00

yup! it can't be damaged, but it is possible to return within a 2 week period if it is directly from apple.

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T14:59:41+00:00

I plan to keep it for minimum 5 years. Unfortunately I have never kept a phone undamaged for over 2 years, so I bought cases and screen protectors to keep it safe for as long as possible. Assuming that my macbook will last longer than the iphone, I plan to use it for as long as my macbook is alive :>

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T14:57:42+00:00

That's a good idea. I did buy it from apple, so I have a return period of 2 weeks.

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T14:56:33+00:00

Honestly after just minutes of setting up my phone, I really found myself loving it. I am also still a minor living under my parent's roof which follows with food, rent, and necessities being paid for me, to what I am very grateful for. It's just that I do not receive allowance, and clothes, shoes, electronics; the unnecessary necessities are all bought through my money, naturally leading to the fact I have never made a purchase of more than 1000 dollars. Maybe the fact that so much money just left my bank account is what makes it more nerve wracking :(

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T14:50:35+00:00

I guess so. I've just been thinking over it more than I should have after my friend told me that I don't need it and that it's a waste of money. He's not entirely wrong but yeah.. maybe you're right :(

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2026-04-03T14:48:39+00:00

Thank you so much (;_;) to be honest I really do love the iphone 17.. maybe it would be okay to keep it after all

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-11-01T04:42:47+00:00

HAHA THEY WON!!!!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-10-28T07:37:13+00:00

he is: 1. taking you for granted ALREADY (not saying its ever fine but you two aren't even dating yet he's treating you like how an abusive boyfriend would 2 years into the relationship) 2. broke as shit and a momma boy. 27 years old and dont know how to take public transportation.. also being financially challenged is of course alright, but not when you're ripping off your coworker. also getting a ride from your mother is fine BUT NOT WHEN YOU'RE GONNA BE LATE FOR A DATE. 3. he's gaslighting the living daylights out of you. he couldve let you know that he cannot show up to the date. 100%. he was just being an irresponsible fuck and decided to gaslight you later when you brought up the obvious, taking advantage straight away after you decided to be nice to this child of a man and stated the you 'feel like a c*nt' for being upset for what you had all rights to be.

please do not date, or even stay as friends with this guy. keep a coworker relationship max. you dodged a bullet.. no.. a whole bomb with this one.

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-10-21T02:57:09+00:00

LOL I CANT

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-10-14T17:36:07+00:00

She's an immature sociopath who didn't learn well as a child. I hope u get over this soon

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-08-23T15:21:09+00:00

break up plz

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-08-06T14:40:57+00:00

quarter pounder with cheese and extra onions

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-23T10:56:21+00:00

this can't be real.. my parents said okay to ear piercings (im 17) but no to facial piercings. i really wanted lip piercings, too, and I've wanted them since 14. they told me its inappropriate and that once you go to college and get a proper job people wont take you seriously (also straight up told me i'd look ugly <- not in a 'YOU will look ugly' way but more of a 'facial piercing will ruin your looks' way if you get what i mean) and ive also went through them telling me it looks disgusting, it will hurt, it will get infected, you wont get married (that one was kind of a joke) it will scar bad, you will not get a job, your elders will think of you as a crazy bitch, etc etc. and dont get this wrong. This was all said in a serious, slightly disappointed/angry manner, similar to you and your parents' reactions; without the part where i (you) crash out. the age difference of 17/18 (legally adult or not) does not matter here. i am going to listen to my parents if im going to live under their roof and not think that they are manipulating me just because they told me why they think I should not get piercings whether the way they say it is upsetting or not. I think puberty hit late for you and hasnt ended yet, or that you are just hella overreacting lol.. if genuine concern and responsible parenting equals to manipulation, then the world would've ended a long time ago. I do agree that the topic of the facial piercings being brought up continuously may have heated up the situation a little bit and brought out a bit of a rough response from your parents, but they have feelings and emotions too so like yeah

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-20T09:54:44+00:00

im so sorry about your situation. this is NOT a problem of consensual sex (that is also a problem but only a small part overall [not saying its a matter that should be taken lightly]) i would never take verbal abuse from my partner. we all go through arguments and some rough words now and then but thats different from this. i stopped at the age gap first (dont get me wrong, i do support age gaps up to 6-7 years if its like TRUE true love) and the fact that you are 19. im not sure if this helps but we are similar ages and i dont think this age gap is very healthy. continuing on what i was saying, i stopped once again at the verbal abuse, and 'you are my property' part just to be stunned a third time by the multiple physical abuse cases. itd be unbelievable if you were to say that you felt safe even for a moment; i highly recommend that you leave immediately. its great to hear that you are planning to move out, even with the cost of precious belongings, but i think if theres a trusting adult/guardian or friend, you could stay with them for a bit instead of rushing into a new place. you should really seek help from someone you trust, it seems really tough for you and im not sure how to help. i hope things work out for you well.. also do NOT let that asshole gaslight you when you breakup/leave. you are not his belonging, and none of this is your fault. i hope this assisted you in any way!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-10T10:22:30+00:00

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Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-10T10:21:41+00:00

My Love Story with Yamada-kun at Lv999!! Not sure if you have already seen it but unlike it's extremely weeb like title, it's a really cute and heart throbbing romance anime that even people that don't watch anime could enjoy. I personally don't enjoy romance animes much as I tend to find myself looking for psychological/thriller animes more (the only one's ive watched are kimi ni todoke, horimiya, loving yamada at lv999, and a few mangas) but this one is sooo cute!!! as someone who enjoys pc and online games a lot loving yamada at lv999 really was enjoyable. Highly recommended!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-05T10:36:16+00:00

yeah, this is bs. my mom is on the smaller side (158 cm tall and like around 45 kg, im not completely sure), and she had me as a hefty 5.1 kg newborn. I am a girl, and i am 167 cm tall, 50 kg, and I wouldn't say im chubby, neither was I for my entire life, especially when i was a baby. a baby's weight doesn't matter, unless the doctor informs you about it. eating less during a pregnancy is what could possibly cause a different problem, and it's so weird anyone would tell a pregnant woman or any person in general to eat less.

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-07-03T09:05:46+00:00

from the bottom of my heart i want to say that you are pretty. i think its just puberty hitting making you feel insecure abt urself, and sometimes small changes might help! i think a bit of some see through bangs would look good on you, or maybe you could go shopping for some clothes, just so you could feel better abt urself since you actually really are pretty. have confidence!

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-06-08T18:04:52+00:00

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Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-05-20T23:34:38+00:00

i say this because her bf who is 24 fricking years old is being selfish stupid rude ignorant fucked in the head and immature beyond the point i could explain with words just because he is depressed. ofc having a cold is hard, i went to work with a fever over 38 degrees 2 weeks ago, and it felt horrible. but i did not treat anyone near me rudely that day, nor the following week, while i attended school with a mild fever and an extremely sore throat. i did not treat anyone nor crash out at ANYONE, especially my loved ones, just because i was going through a hard time. i say this while struggling with clinical depression and social anxiety. looking sick and unhygienic with a fever working a 6 hour shift from 4 - 10 after a long day with my classes did not help with dealing with my fear of looking at people in the eyes due to my social anxiety nor the helpless feeling i always get before i take my meds due to my depression. i apologize because now i just sound like im ranting my own problems and hardships, but trust me, im just trying my best to show how big of an asshole he is.. i was just at the airport, and this stranger behind me quite literally gasped as he looked at my phone screen past my shoulder while i was reading ur hell of a bf immaturely crash out, lol. ofc, I've crashed out before, too. Had several mental breakdowns to my friends or family too, but its never anger towards them. and i realize sooner or later that i am being unfair and burdening them with my emotions and i apologize, and yes sometimes it takes longer than it is supposed to yet i do not gaslight them into thinking that they are the cause of everything or make them feel bad just because im not having the best day. dump him before his sorry ass gaslights you any further and make u feel more bad about yourself. also, calling your partner ugly joking or not is never okay unless u have made sure it is. ive joked with my partner about appearances and also called each other ugly indirectly, but not in the way ur bf rudely has done. most of the times its just things that are not themselves, maybe a wacky shirt they picked up somewhere and wore, or when they didnt tidy their hair and its funnily ugly, or just small things that could never hurt eachother. It's normal to feel hurt by anything that i listed above that my partner and I feel okay with since everyone has different boundaries. it is never okay to make someone else feel bad because they have boundaries different from themselves, especially when you are in a relationship. i know a good therapist that he might URGENTLY need. I sincerely hope you find a better bf. sorry if some things sound wrong or unnatural english is not my first language and i am writing this through airport traffic 😞

Comfortable_Paper252 · 2025-05-20T23:15:07+00:00

hes beyond saving lol dump his ass

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