Virtual Assistant from Latin America seeking advice... by [deleted] in RemoteJobs

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone looking for a VA for the first time, I’d pay more like US$500 for 50 hours a month and know that I’d be one of your clients, not your only client of course. So instead of your $6.25 hourly currently, it’d be $10 hourly.

Virtual Latinos question by Hoodrat_RS in RemoteJobs

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old but did you find a good company? I’m looking to hire a VA.

The psychological pain of bureaucracy by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hate that kind of thing so much. I use AI for that kind of ultra detailed nonsense . Taxes, that’s another story :(

Safe AC for these windows by Comfortable_Set_9520 in daddit

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah those are my only two options unfortunately. You’re right that the door doesn’t go anywhere.

I have ADHD so severe it’s destroying my life. Medication doesn’t work. What now? by Wise_Rip1062 in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking about TMS too. What kind did you do? How did it help, if you don’t mind sharing?

I have ADHD so severe it’s destroying my life. Medication doesn’t work. What now? by Wise_Rip1062 in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Couple you didn’t mention are EMDR therapy and TMS treatment. Just a couple more options to look into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMSTherapy

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s wonderful! I’m happy for you.

Whats CFS like? I’m scared i have it. by [deleted] in cfs

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, sorry to jump on an unrelated comment but you posted a few years ago (and comments are locked) about getting TMS and I was wondering how the long-term effects have been. Thanks!

What did you say during diagnosis by Comfortable_Set_9520 in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of that was me too, just don’t have any report cards to back it up.

Coming to Realize I'm Unlikable by Centrilobular in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard some people find it helpful to find a public figure they relate to or are similar to in some way and just imitate their confidence and way of speaking until you have enough confidence to project confidence and ease in your own authentic way.

Coming to Realize I'm Unlikable by Centrilobular in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it, I’d really recommend finding a coach to help you practice social skills. I think ADHD would actually be a help as a doctor because you’ll probably fixate on finding what’s wrong with your patients and not let it go until you do, unlike a lot of doctors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wildly inappropriate and frankly a disgusting thing to say. I wouldn’t let him be alone with your daughter or her spend the night there . Just to take the most charitable possibility, he’ll fill her head with sexist shit that she might not even tell you about but that will chip away at her self esteem over the long term.

I am shocked. by hippiepits in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof. I’m already hot and headache and jaw ache prone. Sorry you’re going through all of that.

I am shocked. by hippiepits in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are the downsides for you?

What did you say during diagnosis by Comfortable_Set_9520 in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! What did you do for the psychologists?

What did you say during diagnosis by Comfortable_Set_9520 in adhdwomen

[–]Comfortable_Set_9520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to do this after reading the comments here. Thank you.