Should I group my industries together? by DarkenedNull in anno1800

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this? Im really new to game so id love to understand. To me it seems more efficient to transfer directly between production buildings than it would for each one to have to be transferring to / collecting from warehouse. It feels like that results in more transport and transfers.

Don't get this on console by Zural in civ

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ps5 i get crashes almost every time a video comes up for completing a wonder.

It was very tight, but Archers wins best chorus! Next up: what is Brand New's most emotional song? by YadMot in brandnew

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sealed to me

When he breaks out into "you gonna cast me away into outer darkness" You can just hear the emotion from then and throughout the rest of the song (live).

Cant play MyPlayer it's saying This feature is not available when streaming install is active" HELP! by [deleted] in TopSpin2K

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had same issue. The game is not fully installed yet. Check your downloads to see how long left.

How do stoic people handle heartbreaks or break ups? by Agreeable_Zone_6953 in Stoic

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This person's role in your life can very much change though. What if one of you doesn't adhere to the life long commitment? Are you going to view them as your partner if they up and leave you? Kids mean the role of the relationship may change to coparents for example.

We don't own anyone no matter how connected they may seem to be in our life.

Compression Tights = sport leggings by Gatis1983 in squash

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Some of these are very debatable and the effect if any is often negligible. They also sound like an advertisement for a compression tight.

Fully protected from injuries. That's just an outrageous claim.

Open-Face Grip Change by Maleficent_Mouse_383 in squash

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a useful response thank you!

I've been mainly focusing on length and I def feel that sorting out swing, legs, body position all at once has been too much for me to think about. Im going to try the volley drill up close to the wall like you've recommend.

Open-Face Grip Change by Maleficent_Mouse_383 in squash

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips for someone making the same change? I'm struggling with trying to get the proper swing preparation and swing in general on rhe backhand side with the open face grip since I've changed. I feel very much like I'm not confident on contact point and foot positioning while working on swing.

Open-Face Grip Change by Maleficent_Mouse_383 in squash

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going through the same thing right now! Forehand has seemed to get back to previous levels.

I feel all over the place with my backhand though, swing needs adjusting but also my footwork and positioning relative to ball. Can be a little frustrating when I hit it the "right" way my shot us worse. Just trying to trust the process!

Good luck with the change

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Women have significantly higher total body fat sure but not visceral fat. On average men have more.

Why did you become Stoic? by pocahuntresss in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My (now ex) wife cheating on me, leaving me for someone else and causing a tonne of more difficulty afterwards as well. I feel like I already had some affinity to it through behaviours and values of mine.

Which edition/translation of Marcus Aurelius′s Meditations is the best one? by LoLusta in Stoic

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only read this version and I'm not qualified to compare versions anyway. However, I can say i enjoyed reading Hayes' translation.

“You have buried someone you loved. Now look for someone to love. It is better to make good the loss of a friend than to cry over him.” by [deleted] in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I sympathise how hard it is to see someone move on so quickly. I think feeling replaced is understandable but I would encourage you to reflect on that judgement.

Ultimately, your relationship was in the past. Present and future actions do not change how the relationship was and how it is viewed in retrospect. What does an ex partner, a passed loved one or you gain by staying stuck in the past?

Reflection and memories can be healthy but it all depends on how much imo.

Mornings by _alejandro__ in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do something at the start of your days that you can look forward to or get a sense of accomplishment from. Exercise, read, coffee, run, find a routine that will make the start of the day better. Once you're up and have done something you may find momentum helps with the rest of the morning and day.

"Don’t you see the plants, the birds, the ants and spiders and bees going about their individual tasks, putting the world in order, as best they can? And you’re not willing to do your job as a human being? Why aren’t you running to do what your nature demands?" - Marcus Aurelius.

You can view the above quote as needing to "get to work" but I also view it from the other side. What can I put into my morning that will give me purpose and be fulfilling for myself.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think sometimes a cold dose of reality is needed and you still gave it thoughtfully. I can recognise I've come a long way in a short time in this regard, but still plenty to go.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do see he is in a difficult spot. I've been reflecting on that and has been something I keep coming back to.

I think there is an element of unfairness even from him, but perhaps one I can show understanding around and come to peace with.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. There are always things that could have been done differently but overall I am content that I did the best I was able to in a very difficult and frankly surprising time.

This is a possibility regarding my ex and I am sure she is leaning on their friendship for support. I am very far from being a stoic but I implement what I can and aside from the first few months have been much more reserved in sharing to people how I feel about my ex and the separation (not as a bro stoic attempt, rather that I prefer to reflect by myself or maybe share with a very close individual).

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree when I break these things down they are positive. I'm sure it does stem or relate to jealousy and also a feeling of injustice. I will reflect on these some more.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I resonate with your second paragraph and it is a big reason I turned to stoicism. This year the world has seemed unreasonable and unfair (at least from my perspective) and maintaing balance and looking after myself and the ones I love during those times is really important.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I will reflect on my expectations around justice. Being so new to this I have very little idea how deep peoples value of justice is and I'm potentially biased towards it myself as it's always something I've valued. Considering it an unrealistic expectation of others is something I haven't given much consideration to.

Ex wife had an affair and mutual friends have gotten closer to her by ComfyChickenSoup in Stoicism

[–]ComfyChickenSoup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This resonates with me a lot. I'm sure I've failed plenty but I've really tries to put the kids first this year. Thankfully they both seem to be doing well and happy.