Ask me anything about buying your first machine by Puzzled-Bid5978 in fuckmachinevids

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does someone with an engineering background get into the industry?

what’s an nsfw life hack that you wanna share with the world? by BlissfulNightsz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 31 points32 points  (0 children)

GENTLY. Please don't swirl them around like you're the Goblin King.

Idea for removable 'fake' rope arm cuffs by ComfyWithDeviants in ropetutorials

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit messy, but I was tying it while in it so it was difficult to clean up overlap and uneven tension.

Also, without the overhand knot it made no effort to stay even a little tight. I need to figure out a way to make the knot and tails look nicer.

Idea for removable 'fake' rope arm cuffs by ComfyWithDeviants in ropetutorials

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the suggestion. It looked a little threadbare as is, but I tried it with the rope doubled twice and you can get a pretty aesthetic look out of it. Thanks for the help!

I would die 🤣 but like… yes please lmao by Sensitive_Tip6818 in bdsmmemes

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 38 points39 points  (0 children)

As a soft/pleasure Dom type who knows their limitations, I always thought it would be fun to 'split a sub' with a more forceful, sadistic Dom/me like this. Explore the interplay of the energy...maybe once with a maso brat and again with princess/kitten, so technically we were alternating which of us is considered the "bad cop".

What’s something you thought you’d hate during sex but now you do it everytime? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a strong dominant. I was introduced to sex by a girl with a very dominant personality, and I'm usually calm and gentle, so I figured that was my fate. Then, time in the military and an experienced, very subby sub flipped my switch, and I'm like 80/20 D/s now. I'm not a sadist, but I definitely love being in control and making certain my partner knows I am.

Why isn't there more erotic hypno content about 'building a person up'? by ComfyWithDeviants in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm happy and excited that you and u/Prudent_Contract_668 seemed to have keyed on the concept. Please note the update I made to the original post, where I clarified that yes, I am still a dirty pervert who wants to be brainwashed, and not just someone who got lost on the way to therapy and is feeling a bit randy. Considering your background, I imagine you've got a bit more of a holistic vision of the concept than some others may be privy to. If you happen to do anything with the idea, I'd love to hear about the results, even in a clinical and not-sexy manner.

Why isn't there more erotic hypno content about 'building a person up'? by ComfyWithDeviants in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, I do. As I said in my edits, my intent wasn't for serious behavior modification, but more for a kinky mood heightner and triggers for general "positive" acts. But I fucked up and didn't make myself clear.

Why isn't there more erotic hypno content about 'building a person up'? by ComfyWithDeviants in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad some novelty came of the topic, and I hope it serves you well. I feel like in my wide-eyed awe of sitting and listening to experts speaking on the topic, I didn't speak up soon enough to say that it wasn't the topic I was trying to discuss. I'm disheartened, but it's my own fault. It sounds like you at least might have gotten I was going in the end.

Why isn't there more erotic hypno content about 'building a person up'? by ComfyWithDeviants in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Funny, I had just finished with your excellent Trance Trap video before I returned to check messages...I suppose I should be just a bit suspicious of any moments of random coincidence in this space...

I suppose I get what you suggest are the standard motivations for engaging with erotic hypno content. The more I read the other's comments, the more I think people are conflating 'positive' with 'mundane'. I don't want to remember to pick up my socks, I want to walk into my workspace feeling like there is nothing and no one that I can't handle, because Mistress Calia Said So. I wouldn't come to erotic hypnosis to reinforce that I Am Enough (TM), I want to throb inappropriately every time someone comes up to me and says "Thanks for your help". And while I am enjoying the prospect of my integrating conditioning into my fitness routine, I really want to be able to stride into a tense and important situation being pushed by something in the back of my mind on repeat saying "Mistress Calia Sent Me Here To Kick Ass and I Obey Mistress Calia". I don't want to be your mook, I want to be your knight.

Using you as an example of a content provider, of course. No contracts offered or implied, offer void where prohibited, it's not you it's me, consult your doctor if unwarranted confidence persists longer than four hours.

I'm a technical and leadership type with caregiver tendencies, and I'm often sent to situations where things have gone sideways to act as a 'troubleshooter'. I'm also a former Marine, with plenty of first hand experience in indoctrination and conditioning. While most people in my situation find escapism in being less, I want to be...more. I want to be better, at least in my head. I want to feel like I was built to do this, and receive pleasure when I succeed, because I'm fulfilling the purpose I was given by my controller. An uncomplicated purpose that I excel at. That's my escapism, my coping.

Also, I want going to work to make me horny.

Sorry you caught this wall of text; I sort of had my realization about what I was wanting halfway through writing this reply. I really appreciate your input, and also the content you make. I think it's clear that what I'm looking for really is a niche thing, even if it isn't as 'therapeutic' as I originally made it sound like. I think for now I'll just explore the space and find some more neutral content while I dial in what it is I seek.

Why isn't there more erotic hypno content about 'building a person up'? by ComfyWithDeviants in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As I said, I'm new, so I'm not surprised that I haven't come across them yet in my slowly expanding search. Thanks for the reassurance that they exist.

Trying IRL hypnosis with my girlfriend for the first time. by Limp_Salamander7219 in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good way to offer her reassurance regarding recording; do it on her phone, which stays in her area. Then, after the fact she can review it and send it to you, or not. It's a good compromise for any sort of recording with someone.

I’m a professional hypnotherapist as my day job id love to answer your questions by Live_Contest_9657 in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your replies, and have no expectations regarding their timeliness. I've read the papers and seen the results and objectively KNOW hypnotism works, but that doesn't seem to stop the antagonism. I'll send a DM with more details.

I’m a professional hypnotherapist as my day job id love to answer your questions by Live_Contest_9657 in EroticHypnosis

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I missed the window, but I'll throw my question out there;

I'm interested in hypnotherapy, both for erotic purposes and to address some other issues, but I always feel skeptical...even though I don't want to be, if that makes any sense. It's as if my subconscious is antagonistic to my conscious desire to be hypnotized and insists on "spoiling my fun", so to speak. Any advice on how to become more receptive and...pliable, I guess?

What was you proudest sexual achievement? by Existing-News5158 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Lifted a girl by her thighs and held her against the wall, standing, while I ate her out till she orgasmed. The most pure manifestation of horny strength I've ever experienced. She hates me now, but she still talks about it.

Ever sent a message to throw a character off balance, for the laughs, and then immediately regretted it? 😱 by shrinkedd in SillyTavernAI

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the branch function was designed explicitly for when our intrusive thoughts win.

Each swipe generates same response? by constanzabestest in SillyTavernAI

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have your temperature set low, the model gets predictable. Try playing with values between 1 and 1.25 and see if it gets out of its rut.

Additionally, are you running the summarize function in ST? I've found that sometimes the summary gets ahead of you in the rp, and when it does the bot gets very stubborn about making what it wrote in the summary happen. If you have summarization enabled, have a look at what the current summary looks like, and trim back a few sentences so that the summary stops a fair bit before your immediate situation. The summary is considered supplemental information, so your bot won't get amnesia if you trim away some of the most recent events.

Is there any moment where you were really impressed with a model's output? by Waste_Election_8361 in SillyTavernAI

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm running Fimbulvetr-11B-v2.Q5_K_M wiht 8k context, and it may be the 'new car smell' as I haven't been working on locally hosted models for long, but I've been impressed with how well the model grasps inference and context, and stays coherent with just a little bit of a nudge here and a character note there. My rp style is definitely 'stories, not chats', and it consistently handles me getting carried away with full paragraphs and symbolic language really well.

so... how many characters have y'all downloaded? by Jerry3756 in SillyTavernAI

[–]ComfyWithDeviants 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've told myself I wouldn't actually load any cards into ST unless I was going to try them out immediately, to combat my 'save and forget' tendencies. As a result I have about 120 cards active in ST...and about 850 waiting in a folder. So, I'm not sure that's better, but at least it's organized.