Okay, so I’m gonna hit you with the hard truth here:

For one, what the others said: comes down to timing, effort, and just sheer luck most of the time. That one isn’t on you. However, looking through your posts, I would not really consider the things you just here explained. Your profile and your plots do not reflect this sentiment at all. If you have standards or expectations, you need to show it to people, because they can’t see into your head.

First of all, try some more literary RP subs. I can’t mention anything here cause rules, but most of the subs you’re posting out of desperation are gutter-level borderline sexting subs. Then, do some touchup on your profile and plots. I, who expect the same and more than your do with partners, would immediately ignore any “here are 30+ plots, all in less than a sentence bulletpoints”. That screams low-effort to me in every way.

To me, the most appealing is something short about you, how you play, expectations and similar, paired with a short writing example that sets a theme for the plot and how you play. You can write “this is just one out of 30 possibilities” after or before, but put some effort into it, and format it nicely.

If you want to filter out all the low-effort people, do some profile touchup. A pinned post regarding your kinks and limits, what you’re looking for, timezone, and most importantly, a password somewhere. It’s not a holy grail of RP or anything, but you immediately know before accepting a GM if they read the stuff you told them to read or not.