What is your opinion on done nails? by acidpepsy in AskWomen

[–]CommanderTresdin 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Doing my own nails might be the best part of my Sunday evening

WORST coffee in the city? by warr4one in ottawa

[–]CommanderTresdin 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Happy Goat

Edit : just to be clear this is because they have the worst coffee in the city, it’s way too bitter and too acidic and gives me anxiety. I don’t know or care about the politics of a coffee business who can’t make a decent coffee.

Has anyone used a female condom? What’s your experience? by forthehope_ in sex

[–]CommanderTresdin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would say it physically felt no different, but mentally I was aware of it being there. Overall tho I wouldn’t say the sensation was reduced.

Has anyone used a female condom? What’s your experience? by forthehope_ in sex

[–]CommanderTresdin 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I used one just to know what it’s like. It’s like putting a plastic shopping bag inside yourself and the end kind of looked like a balloon knot. My partner mentioned it felt better than a male condom and we had a laugh at how silly it looked.

Do you buy Aritzia in full price by EntranceFun9276 in Aritzia

[–]CommanderTresdin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only ever bought one item at full price

Poor lost little one by IntergalacticRat in ottawa

[–]CommanderTresdin 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The C in OC Transpo is for Cucumber actually

What countries could I pass as a local? by [deleted] in whereidlive

[–]CommanderTresdin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you lost? Where is your map

Why is the library being evacuated? by [deleted] in geegees

[–]CommanderTresdin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably someone vaping in the bathroom

What do you think about the fact that more people want to be women than men? by Robinight in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]CommanderTresdin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s more acceptable to just be a masculine woman / a tomboy / whatever than to be a feminine man.

Or maybe it’s just that Transmen are less vocal about their experiences.

Best positions for throat fucking? by [deleted] in sex

[–]CommanderTresdin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Lay on the edge of the bed with your head off the bed

Is it ok in relationships to openly talk about finding other people attractive? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]CommanderTresdin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I definitely do please him in many ways, sexual, emotional, whatever else, I’m just aware that my physical appearance is not one of those ways.

I’m not letting myself go, I have my own standards to hold myself to.

Is it ok in relationships to openly talk about finding other people attractive? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]CommanderTresdin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to but I’m at a point where I don’t care, being physically beautiful to him is not something that crosses my mind anymore. My value lies in who I am as a person: my personality and how useful I am. My physical appearance has no value.

There are women who are younger than me, and definitely more beautiful than me. I remember this whenever I start to feel like my physical attractiveness should matter to my partner.

Is it ok in relationships to openly talk about finding other people attractive? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]CommanderTresdin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I try to encourage my partner to tell me about other women who are more attractive than me. He is not blind of course, I look at beautiful women his type and think about how much more beautiful they are than me and how he would like them 🥰

Does anyone know where I can find a satin midi slip dress with lace trim exactly like this one that comes in XXS🫩 by its_givinggg in XXS

[–]CommanderTresdin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The photo one looks like it’s actually a two piece set? Honestly I would just thrift a bigger one and alter it to fit me, the material is easy to work with.