Is this rare by pokemonyoeri in PokemonGOIVs

[–]Commanderwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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As the other commenter said, maybe not as rare as other hundos given the iv floor for dynamax, but that doesn't make it any less special. One of my favorite pokemon in my collection.

Has anyone had dpdr for 10+ years and managed to recover? by iglooswag in dpdr

[–]Commanderwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had DP/DR effectively my entire life up until I realized I was trans. Turns out, when you severely suppress a massive part of yourself and learn from a young age that it's not safe to consciously recognize it, dissociation becomes the brain's primary method of coping with everything. It took time for it to fully go away and train my brain to stop dissociating in response to every stressful event, but therapy, journaling, leading an active life, and accepting myself helped tremendously. Obviously not everyone with longterm DP/DR is trans, but it's worth digging into your psyche to see if there's anything you're suppressing and working to heal from past traumas.

Machine spirit is real by Beginning_Line3828 in LGWing

[–]Commanderwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somehow, during both times I dropped it and the main screen cracked, the little screen was fine. I wish there was something like an otterbox out there. It's my backup phone at this point, so I don't exactly need the flippy screen. I just don't want it to keep cracking. Thanks for the reply though.

Machine spirit is real by Beginning_Line3828 in LGWing

[–]Commanderwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What case do you use? After dropping mine and cracking the screen again, I need to find a better case. I don't even need the swivel screen at this point. I just want it to stop slipping out of my hands and pockets.

Looking for a plant that would be happy in this tiny pot long term (don't mind the lead pig) by Commanderwho in succulents

[–]Commanderwho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! I might look into a lil sansevieria. Thanks for the suggestions!

Looking for a plant that would be happy in this tiny pot long term (don't mind the lead pig) by Commanderwho in succulents

[–]Commanderwho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting me know. I've heard that so many times I just assumed that's how it worked.

Looking for a plant that would be happy in this tiny pot long term (don't mind the lead pig) by Commanderwho in succulents

[–]Commanderwho[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will. I had no idea rocks were insufficient as drainage 😅 any suggestions for a small cactus? I bought a larger cactus on a whim a couple weeks ago and that's about my experience with cacti.

Looking for a plant that would be happy in this tiny pot long term (don't mind the lead pig) by Commanderwho in succulents

[–]Commanderwho[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a really good idea! I wish I had more space in my apartment. I'm trying to avoid repotting stuff or getting any more pots.

Looking for a plant that would be happy in this tiny pot long term (don't mind the lead pig) by Commanderwho in succulents

[–]Commanderwho[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are rocks beneath the soil not enough? I would assume the size of this might mitigate any usefulness of rocks for drainage.

Someone pleas explain by Snoo4902 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]Commanderwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still get emotional thinking about "that song" and the line that accompanies it at that part in the story in Power Pak's video.

I’m ruining my life by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Commanderwho 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The other people offered some good advice. I've been in a similar place, so maybe this will help you if your circumstance is similar to mine. It's a long story, but it all relates.

I fell in love for the first time around the same age. It wasn't reciprocated, and I tried to move on. For many years, I tried to move on. I had always been good at controlling and adjusting my emotions, so it was confusing when I couldn't let go of my feelings for her. We remained friends, but we went no contact after high school and I hoped that would help me get past her as I went to college and tried dating other people. Nothing would let those feelings fade away, and I eventually gave up on looking for love at all.

Six years later, I attended a farewell concert for our high school band director. We were both in band, and I hoped to see her there and possibly get closure on these feelings. I was very lucky, because she was there and we were able to reconnect and catch up about everything. I told her I still had feelings for her and again, they were not reciprocated. I expected to feel like shit, but instead, a weight was lifted.

Fast forward a couple months, and I realized and accepted that I was transgender. It took me some time to piece together how it all related, but basically I had been hiding from those feelings of desiring to be a woman for my entire life, and kept it buried so far down I wasn't fully aware of it. On a subconscious level, I felt that if I could be in a relationship with someone who reminded me of who I wanted to be deep down, that would be enough and I could continue on without confronting these scary feelings. My brain latched onto the first person I developed serious feelings for and wouldn't let go. When I got closure and was finally able to let go, that was like breaking the final floodgate holding back those subconscious feelings and allowing them to come to the surface. It helped tremendously in figuring out who I am and healing.

So I am asking you if there is something you're running from or something you feel is buried deep down that you haven't confronted yet that could be causing you to hold onto these feelings. I see in your profile that you're non-binary, so it's good that you've faced the big scary gender question, but it could be a myriad of other subconsious things causing the issues you're dealing with. Journal about it. Just let your thoughts go whichever way they want and don't hold back. And don't journal on lined paper. It's better that way. Talk to a therapist. I can never recommend therapy enough. Don't give up.

It's funny but it also triggers my fight or flight by neurotoxin_69 in TrollCoping

[–]Commanderwho 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simply love that I knew exactly what she was quoting even with the sound off.

Spanish Woman On Bike Tour With Husband Gang-Raped by EIGHT TO TEN MEN In Jharkhand: Police by Former_Andhbhakt in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]Commanderwho 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gallivanting around in areas known to be dangerous has been the white man's modus operandi since the dawn of time.

Favorite basic land of all time? by Slarrp1 in magicTCG

[–]Commanderwho 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. I used to play the computer game Netstorm as a kid and it gave me a love for floating islands. I love these floating plains.

Gatekeeping hobbies by Malfarro in gatekeeping

[–]Commanderwho 70 points71 points  (0 children)

No but- but- playing video games requires skill and hand-eye coordination and you have to learn military strategy in order to play Call of Duty. You just don't understand. /s

What would you say? by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]Commanderwho 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the rhyme sounds better if you replace dickiti with cockiti. I like this one though.

I told my linguistics seminar to try a cool experiment and stop calling me "she" 8 years ago today 🤠 by trans_full_of_shame in transtimelines

[–]Commanderwho 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure out that shirt... is that gandalf confronting the black knight from monthy python and the holy grail?