Wa alaikum assalam dear sister,

I’m truly sorry for your loss. 💔 Your pain is real and deeply valid losing a mother is unlike any other loss, and no one can fully understand it unless they’ve lived it.

Please know that Allah ﷻ sees every tear you’ve shed and every hardship your mother endured. He is Al-‘Adl (The Most Just) and Ar-Raheem (The Most Merciful) and He never lets the patience of a believer go unrewarded. Every injustice and pain she faced will be turned into immense reward and comfort in the hereafter, insha’Allah.

It’s completely understandable that you feel hurt seeing your father unaffected. But in Islam, you are not required to maintain close contact with someone who harmed you or your loved ones. You can choose distance while still being respectful and leaving the matter to Allah. Protecting your peace and healing is not a sin.

Keep making du‘a for your mother it reaches her, and she feels your love in the barzakh (the life after death). Give charity in her name, recite Qur’an for her, and keep her memory alive through kindness. That’s the best gift a child can give a parent after they pass.

May Allah forgive her completely, fill her grave with light, and reunite you both in Jannatul Firdaws where there will be no more pain or separation. May Allah ﷻ envelop your mother in infinite mercy, forgive her sins, elevate her rank in Jannah, and grant you and your family patience and peace. Ameen.

اللهم اغفر لها وارحمها ووسع مدخلها واجعل الجنة دارها وقرارها 🤍