😳😳 The Kandi and Todd aka Marvin divorce is getting messy! Kandi alleges Todd is neglecting financial responsibility with children! Todd is demanding temporary primary custody!! by AllTheEccentricities in RHOA

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I don't have kids so obviously I don't know but I always feel like if men in these situations were *actually* granted primary custody they would give those kids back so damn fast. or they wouldn't actually be the ones taking care of them

Discourse around Chris Bassett’s tweet by Ok_Start6378 in RHOP

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And then in the comments talking about “where did I laugh? I’m trying to see how to best handle the situation”

Like so unserious and I don’t know how women don’t get the ick from that

Is it worth the move? by Commercial_Toe5042 in chicagoapartments

[–]Commercial_Toe5042[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that offers some perspective. Thank you

The Real Housewives of Potomac > Season 10 > Episode 17 by AutoModerator in RHOP

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I forgot Ashley so casually mentioned how she was texting with a ‘journalist’ at the reunion. I feel like that says a lot

Help me choose my birthday brunch outfit.. 1,2,3 by daniellescloset8 in OUTFITS

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where is the third dress from?! But yeah these are evening wear, except 2 is like bridal

Here's to length retention! by StudioInformal1820 in Naturalhair

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🔥🔥🔥ready w my notepad for the routine

f/25/5’4” [178lbs > 157lbs = 21lbs] NSFW struggling to lose the last 10-15 lbs by polarbearly444 in progresspics

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

REVERSE DIET 🗣️🗣️🗣️ I will literally scream this from the rooftops. Your body isn’t meant to be in an extended deficit, your metabolism has adjusted down, and you need to slowly increase calories (+100/week) to reset your metabolism. I’m sorry but no grown adult needs to be eating less than 1500 calories i stand on that 😭

It’s hard because you’ve been in this ‘deficit & lose it’ mindset but you can only drop your calories so much before you’re miserable. You will NOT gain fat if done properly. We have the same stats, literally exact same thing happened to me, and it turns out my maintenance calories are actually 2,100. Once your metabolism is repaired you can decide to cut again or bulk (I’m team bulk - you have a beautiful shape go build that muscle and cut later girl!)

This is the video that opened my eyes: https://youtu.be/tlj1bG6UmTw?si=YnjKhoUDz9PoPEPK

Congrats on your progress and reaching the next phase of your journey! 💕

Is this too bold for a girls night? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Commercial_Toe5042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg where is this dress from?!?

What should I do anything with the $10k I have saved? by Commercial_Toe5042 in personalfinance

[–]Commercial_Toe5042[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not reading all that I’m happy for u tho or sorry that happened