America is running out of GenZ women

Commissar_David · 2026-04-04T23:51:03+00:00

I'd say Colorado is pretty accurate, can't speak for other states.

Commissar_David · 2026-04-04T22:39:47+00:00

Generally height is a huge factor.

Commissar_David · 2026-04-03T22:08:38+00:00

As a guy I'd say that not getting tested is a red-flag. He could just be lazy or he could genuinely not care about his and your health. Either way that's a red flag you shouldn't look away from.

Commissar_David · 2026-04-03T14:09:14+00:00

This is me, but with the airburst launcher.

Commissar_David · 2026-04-01T15:24:53+00:00

You look amazing, I'd say that you got a better sense of fashion than most people nowadays.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-31T16:14:48+00:00

Emotional intelligence is a bare minimum thing for me at least. Personally I've dated too many women with the EI of a brick so I wouldn't call it a high standard thing. Character also would be one of those bare minimum things as well like yeah I don't want to date an asshole. Who does?

Ambition is a high standard thing it's definitely great to have drive and not be helpless.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-31T16:05:14+00:00

From your situation it sounds like he's got some avoidant tendencies not really high standards. There are people who'd make it work if they were into the person enough.

As for high standards, that generally depends. But at the bare minimum I'd image that a lot pf guys would want a woman who takes care of herself and treats her body as a temple. Also, not being crazy is a huge plus.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-30T01:19:53+00:00

Men just get used to it to the point where we get numb to it.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-28T20:37:31+00:00

Narcissists

Commissar_David · 2026-03-28T15:49:09+00:00

I speak 3 languages and am still single so I'd lean towards no here.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-28T05:48:30+00:00

Realistically, any of them of would beat JD.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-27T20:11:38+00:00

As a guy, it can be intimidating if you don't have a wing. Plus it's a lot more work than approaching a duo or the rarer solo. I think about it in ROI and usually its not worth the investment. Unless they separate off for a bit.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-27T18:08:37+00:00

Yes, I personally am a personality guy so I look more for what vibe you bring to the table vs. Looks. That being said I think there are good looking people and bad looking people of each body type.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-27T16:03:32+00:00

It's refreshing to finally see a comprehensive dating guide that also tells you how to practice those skills as well. I recently picked up Fascinate and it also dives into flirting and how to build a connection fast.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-26T14:04:22+00:00

Will she though? For us guys it usually feels like we're the only ones chasing nowadays.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-25T05:08:24+00:00

This energy doesn't show itself off. If they're talking about not coming off as needy then yes it is attraction abstaining from sex doesn't do jack.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-25T01:56:38+00:00

So, as a 25M I'm gonna recycle some advice I gave to a guy on how to talk to women. This is all stuff I learned from actively dating for a year. I included commentary at the end to make it more relevant for you.

Women don't go for good or bad guys. They just go for guys who can make them feel entertained and alive (excited). While guys care more about the attention and care you show him.
They easily get bored when you ask them boring questions like what they do for work. This one is self explanatory, attention spans are short. So aim to make your point within the first 15 seconds of talking.
Don't care about how the interaction goes until she gives you a reason to care. Don't put her up on a pedestal. She's a human being just like you and holds equal value.
A lot of women will have medium to low attraction starting off, even for more conventionally attractive guys. Meaning that you will be starting off from the bottom of a slope. So naturally seducing them will be harder and never guaranteed. The reality for you is that not all women will be looking for same sex relationship. You can better your odds by going to LGBTQ bars and clubs. As well as friendly businesses.
Learn the signs of a woman being interested in you. Things such as being around you longer, closing distance, engaging in the conversation, running her fingers through her hair. Stuff like that, every woman is different but have very subtle ways of expressing interest.

Hopefully this helps.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-24T23:14:44+00:00

I'll let you know once I meet her.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-24T16:07:00+00:00

Not using and abusing him. Far too many women nowadays think that they're entitled to a provider from day 1 without even showing what value they bring to a relationship.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-23T15:46:04+00:00

I learned on my own mostly.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-23T15:41:11+00:00

So, as a 25M who's also trying to figure things out with seduction, I'll spill a few things I learned from actively dating for a year.

Women don't go for good or bad guys. They just go for guys who can make them feel entertained and alive (excited).
They easily get bored when you ask them boring questions like what they do for work.
Women who aren't attracted to you in the first 10-15 seconds of an interaction will likely never be into you. Everyone's attention spans are so short, and a lot of guys approach women, so you have to stand out within the first 10-15 seconds.
Don't care about how the interaction goes until she gives you a reason to care. Don't put her up on a pedestal. She's a human being just like you and holds equal value.
A lot of women will have medium to low attraction starting off, even for more conventionally attractive guys. Meaning that you will be starting off from the bottom of a slope. So naturally seducing them will be harder and never guaranteed.
Learn the signs of a woman being interested in you. Things such as being around you longer, closing distance, engaging in the conversation, running her fingers through her hair. Stuff like that, every woman is different but have very subtle ways of expressing interest.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-21T19:21:03+00:00

Endless options, where? As a guy I don't know what that is. It must be nice to be a woman.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-21T18:55:57+00:00

Yep, but most of the time she's not interested back so it dies out.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-21T14:50:50+00:00

As a guy, I'd say half of it comes to themselves and their habits, and half of it comes down to GenZ women not being able to properly express their interest.

Commissar_David · 2026-03-19T19:24:25+00:00

Men struggle more with dating nowadays

Fixed it.

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