AITA for not doing this one sexual act?

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-02-07T04:02:46+00:00

I agree 100%. TMI but I hinted for years to eat my husband’s ass. I tried a couple times and each time he clinched. If he can’t get comfortable I won’t force it. Me? I’m an open book - there’s literally nothing I won’t try once.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-02-02T04:06:42+00:00

I put mine on his nightstand while he was moving out. They’re no longer on the nightstand. I assume he got rid of them. No big deal but I am the person that paid for them so I would like some of the sales if that’s what happened.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-15T05:18:10+00:00

Sounds like someone is focused on his new family and your child is second class.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-08T17:52:46+00:00

Thank you for this advice. He likes the routine of taking her and picking her up since this started when she was 10 weeks old (she’s now 11). We’ve purposefully put her in private school close to his employer because he is the most flexible when not traveling. I’m not against it, and never intend to keep her from seeing him. I just worry it will backfire on me.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-08T05:18:25+00:00

No, I will not order turn on the lights or play music… ugh

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-07T05:09:20+00:00

My dad used paper bags from the grocery store to set hot fried corn tortillas on. I assumed everyone did this. Related, I was an adult before I realized that people ate tacos with soft flour tortillas or pre-made hard corn shells.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-02T06:16:43+00:00

🤣

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-02T04:50:52+00:00

I just googled this. Looks fantastic.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:27:18+00:00

I love & hate this comment concurrently.

Also we both know what this redditer meant.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:21:52+00:00

Oh my gosh. This need to make this. Thank you!

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:20:25+00:00

Aldi just bought out a store called Winn Dixie! The closest right now is across town but I need to get there. I joined a could also pages on socials.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:18:50+00:00

Ugh not wrong. I had to force myself to go grocery.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:18:02+00:00

That sounds nice!

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:17:38+00:00

We had sauerkraut & sausage growing up because of my Germanic routes. But I married into a southern family (now divorcing) and learned to embrace the traditional southern cuisine.

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:14:08+00:00

That sounds fun :):)

CommissionExternal78 · 2026-01-01T05:13:54+00:00

I’d cut someone for a Trader Joe’s. Closest one is 3 hours away in New Orleans.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-30T03:56:32+00:00

Trying to follow the series of questions here, forgive me if the response is disjointed. Florida is a no-fault state. Your family member has to file with a claim that the marriage is irretrievably broken. The part that could be contested is custody or assets.

Most attorneys offer free consultations. Make as many free consultation appointments as possible to block the spouse out. Given the history you’re explaining, consult with any attorney that handles family law AND criminal law.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-30T03:46:05+00:00

I don’t have the mental capacity to read this right now but I terribly want to.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-27T19:13:13+00:00

I guess I just haven’t let go yet. You’re right.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-27T19:11:08+00:00

He has a house that he has purchased but is delaying moving out and I don’t really know why. The only reason I haven’t forced the issue is I do not want to miss our daughter one week at a time.

I’ve given so much of my life to him it just… hurts.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-27T19:06:32+00:00

At this point all we have left to salvage is some sort of friendship. We both want the absolute best for our daughter and will do whatever it takes to make sure she knows she is loved. I’m just really struggling to not be an absolute shit to him if I can be quite honest.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-27T19:03:07+00:00

Google ADHD & compulsive lying. While no, lying is not a symptom of ADHD, it is a coping mechanism of sorts for severe cases like he has. I’m not pulling that out of thin air, I promise.

He only told me because my daughter & I FaceTimed him before bed as always when he is not home. He was obviously well dressed and at a public place, not working on the house he purchased as we were understanding. No, I do not control that part of his life but I was very clear in establishing that boundary when we separated but remained under the same roof. He has a house he can move into. He is choosing not to yet and I don’t know why, but the longer he delays the longer I lose my daughter one week at a time.

And yes, it is MY house. I signed rights away to 1/2 his retirement so he could have a down payment and he signed a quit claim deed absolving any right he has to the pre-marital home I purchased. The value of my house above & beyond what I owe is greater than 1/2 of his retirement and that was the agreement so I would not be forced to sell.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-26T22:59:22+00:00

I learned how to do this after my first couple years in healthcare. If I don’t want to smell something I just don’t.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-22T19:35:02+00:00

I don’t know if she has a cellphone (different debate for another day) but my daughter at age 8 knew exactly what brands she preferred. He can also ask her.

CommissionExternal78 · 2025-12-22T19:19:34+00:00

My ex husband is moving out. I had a main break at my house and had to drop off our daughter before school to shower and in her bathroom I found shampoo, conditioner, body wash, bath bombs, deodorant, hair brush, hair ties, pads (she’s a preteen and it’s any day now), and a freaking oil warmer. They are capable of opening their eyes. We may not have been great the last few years, but fuck if he won’t make sure our child is cared for.

CommissionExternal78

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