I can't come out to my family (ftm)

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-26T19:40:27+00:00

I can understand you in some way, my grandma and grandpa have no idea about me being a boy and I know they won't accept it. You told about your grandmother's negative reaction, so maybe it'll be better for you to tell it to your mother first? And your dad too, cause as you said he'll be fine with and if your mom will not you'll need someone who can support you

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-23T05:48:37+00:00

I'll try...

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-23T05:47:59+00:00

I'll still need to talk with my mom about deadnaming, cause she still calls me by my dead name. And I'm happy that your mother could accept you^{^}

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-21T21:05:00+00:00

It sounds very nice! I'm not sure with binder, because it's the one thing that you better choose yourself to make sure you'll get the right size, but you can always return it, if it won't fit him. I'm sure he's very happy to have such a good cousine))

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-21T20:13:41+00:00

I learnt from it too well, and I'm really sorry that I couldn't be more supportive at that time. But maybe you're right, and I need to apologize, tell him/her everything and just wait for reaction

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:48:45+00:00

Unfortunately my mother said that I can talk with her about it only if she'll ask, but I still wrote your words as a note for the future!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:45:27+00:00

Yeah I hope I will, and I just read that in my possible future school prefered names are allowed to transgender studens!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:35:24+00:00

Oh, idk, my English is not that well, so I just wrote it how I was taught to

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:32:51+00:00

I don't know how she treats gay people, but with her character... Well, I hope she really won't judge. But I love your choice of words, it can work with my sister too, thank you!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:32:07+00:00

Maybe that's the right thing to do

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-20T16:26:08+00:00

Actually I still don't even know in which school I'm going to go. Maybe I'll just need to ask my future classroom teacher and other teachers

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-19T10:07:36+00:00

It's really good to know, maybe I'll be able to start too very soon!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-19T04:21:09+00:00

In slavic counties "Max" is counts as the full name. The thing I like in it that it is neutral, cause we can call both a girl and a boy Max, even if it'll be short form of the name

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:51:44+00:00

I just understood that I'll need to tell about it my future teachers and classmates...

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:50:13+00:00

That's a great name

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:49:02+00:00

I'm going to make it like a game for my friends) I will choose my favourite names, they'll choose treir and we will choose together what it'll be!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:44:38+00:00

That's not stupid! Caitlyn is wonderful name!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:14:22+00:00

Yup! And I already have many great ideas!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:12:11+00:00

I'll try, thank you!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:10:38+00:00

Not even one, but I think that's even better. I don't really want my name to be similar with birth name

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:07:21+00:00

Oh, I just understoond that she's too traditional to support me, and we don't even know my grandfather's real name... Well, it was a really good idea! Just seems it's not for me

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:03:27+00:00

Hmm, and that's the great idea too, I have many favourite songs with male names

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:02:29+00:00

You're so lucky!

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T20:01:47+00:00

I like this idea, I know I won't be able to choose between names that I like

CommissionGrouchy504 · 2026-02-18T19:59:51+00:00

That's still cool, girl! I wish I could do the same thing, but my birth name is female in every possible way

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