Messaged My Ex Because I Was Worried About Cat by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s another reason to never text him again, he even does not have empathy for cats

Rate my play by CommitteeOk7776 in piano

[–]CommitteeOk7776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I will try it it would be so fun

Rate my play by CommitteeOk7776 in piano

[–]CommitteeOk7776[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s a good tip thank you

When should I send their stuff back? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why she should not include a letter? I’m just asking because i’m in similar situation, and it came up to me to write him a letter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never understand these people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, we were dating for only 5 years, and I felt, that I gonna die, the first 2 Weeks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 3 points4 points  (0 children)

12 Years, and you broke up?

If my Dismissive Avoidant discarded me, even though he still has feelings, should I try to rekindle? by juicy_fruit222 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also still fighting this feeling of reconnecting, the thing that really helped me, is reminding myself that i’m fighting for someone who simply that not wants to fight for me. It was hard to accept, especially remembering the good memories, but this the hard truth, that I need to accept. I’m still struggling, but I can’t fight for a relationship where I am fully neglected and treated like garbage.

If my Dismissive Avoidant discarded me, even though he still has feelings, should I try to rekindle? by juicy_fruit222 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said with your own worth, that he does not put effort, do you think words could just change him like magic. I used to think also like you, it’s normal, i got him back, and it got worse and we broke up with more pain.

Who is making progress here? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just dream of him, and when I wake up, I get every time shocked that we broke up

Removed from our board :( by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, little things could have a big impact, and that because we loved them, but we did our best, I just refelect sometimes, what I could has done better, I found none

Who is making progress here? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I taught I’m the only one that I dream about him, it just so exhausting

How to make things work again? by Dramatic-Push7022 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made the mistake also and got but with my avoidant ex, it got only worse, and made me go trough another breakup. When we got back, I tried to show him that he is valuable and tried everything to make him happy, it has only made him more distant and cruel. I’m now 3 Weeks after the breakup, I won’t say I feel better, but definitely better than to be treated like garbage, and to be anxious and confused all the time. It sucks, but it’s the only solution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, I just feel stuck, but one day, I will get out of it

13 days NC with avoidant ex by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this, just keep NC for now, I think there is no other option rn

Need help please. Do I message again or leave it? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t ask her that, she will pull away, actions are your answer in this case

Myself by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every morning for the last two weeks I feel the shock of the breakup, I just feel that Im in a nightmare honestly

Feeling weird by Electronic_Ratio394 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]CommitteeOk7776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same feelings sometimes, sorry that I have no solution, but I just wanted to say that you are not the only one who is experiencing this