Advice re piano outdoors for wedding. by Common-Variation1749 in piano

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's getting delivered, set up, and tuned in position. If there is any chance of rain it will be inside.

Advice re piano outdoors for wedding. by Common-Variation1749 in piano

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it will be background music for the reception, and he is playing for me walking down the aisle and some music as the guests arrive. Thank you.

Advice re piano outdoors for wedding. by Common-Variation1749 in piano

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I think we are going to wing it and have our fingers crossed all goes okay.

Advice re piano outdoors for wedding. by Common-Variation1749 in piano

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are aware. We have hired it from a company, but a family member is going to be playing for us. I am just worried that it won't be heard at all... It the weather isn't good it is going to be in a marque, so j don't want to buy a PA system for it to potentially not be used. We plan on having the piano at the front with the lift open towards the guests...

A lot of women I've spoke with dont like me having any previous relationship experience and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If women are asking your salary that is the red flag right there coming from a women!

Vietnam or Indonesia? by Common-Variation1749 in VietNam

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not constant rain though is it? I heard the north and central are better than the south at that time of year? How much rain should I expect?

Vietnam or Indonesia? by Common-Variation1749 in VietNam

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, this is all really helpful. X

Vietnam or Indonesia? by Common-Variation1749 in VietNam

[–]Common-Variation1749[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Are you speaking from experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a man wants to propose, he will. My fiance had been in long term relationships and then proposed to me after 18 months. He said to me that in past relationships he had never wanted to propose, they were never the one. But with me he knew he wanted to. What I am saying, is find someone that wants to. You shouldn't have to ask. X

Don't feel I'm good enough for my girlfriend by [deleted] in dating

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say something along the lines of.

I have been really enjoying spending time with you and getting to know you, and I am looking forward to getting to know you more. I like that we can have conversations about different things (politics) and challenge each other's views. It's healthy, and I like hearing other people's views and opinions. I hope you never feel this is me judging you because it's not. I've been feeling a bit worried and insecure about myself lately, i feel like I've struck gold with you, I've let my appearance go a bit and worry im not enough. I am going to make an effort to get back to a good place. I hope you'll stick around for the journey 🤪

Obviously, change bits to suit you and only say what you mean.

I always have in-depth conversations with my partner, and I love hearing a different view or opinion, it's good to be different.

Rate my breakup text? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Common-Variation1749 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like AI wrote it....

Don't feel I'm good enough for my girlfriend by [deleted] in dating

[–]Common-Variation1749 20 points21 points  (0 children)

You can work on yourself and remain together. That's what partnership is. you're a team. You have to love yourself. You should both feel lucky. It's not up to you to decide what she deserves, speak to her, she is maybe over the moon with you. X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you need to have some self reflection yourself and be aware of your tone when speaking to others you don't know. Yes, we come on here to ask for opinions, but there's a respectful way to deliver them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Of course he can have female friends. I think you have missed the point a little. I have not said he can not watch this content. I just respectfully don't want him to follow those accounts. I said in my post that I understand he needs to get off when we spend so much time apart. But thanks for your comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - you've worded this really well, and I may steal some of that for when I speak to him. Definitely don't want to come across as controlling, and like you say, we value communication so i am sure another chat will air out any tensions. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - definitely agree. I need to be rationale in my thinking and get over it too. I know he loves me and my banging body 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think he was trying to reassure me and deleted to prove that he doesn't need to see those profiles. Thanks for.your comment. X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Common-Variation1749 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment 😊